applefreak 1 Report post Posted July 18, 2007 this morning, while i was waiting for my hb to fetch me and i saw a guy opened the car door for his gf. i was asking myself whether such scene can last forever a not. i doubt so lor. during early stage of a relationship, everything looks so sweet and good. haha. reminds me of a jokewhen a man opens the car door for his partner,you can be sure either the car is new or the partner issorry i may sound very cynical herebut believe me, i'm still very much in love with my bf after nine years of being together.i believe he is my soul mate coz he really 'completes' meyes yes i know it sounds cheesy Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
korea 0 Report post Posted July 18, 2007 reminds me of a jokewhen a man opens the car door for his partner,you can be sure either the car is new or the partner is :rofl:sorry i may sound very cynical herebut believe me, i'm still very much in love with my bf after nine years of being together.i believe he is my soul mate coz he really 'completes' meyes yes i know it sounds cheesy haha. i don't think the car is new but it's just a normal korea-made hyundai getz. as for partner new or not, i don't know either. haha. since you're very much in love and he "completes" you then you should get marry! why wait? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
zirhk3355 1 Report post Posted July 18, 2007 i am actually very worried about staying together n not able to adjust to each other. dats y i keep putting off staying together until after our AD... Aren't you avoiding the problem by doing that?? Its like a frog sitting in a pot of slow boiling water...The more worried you are, the more you should quickly try staying together - anything bad happens now, at least both of you adults can walk away. After all the customary, whole world knows you married, money spent and such, then find out not suitable, will be very messy leh... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
yellow 0 Report post Posted July 19, 2007 Hey peopleHow do you know when you really want to marry that person?Mmmh...let me share mine (shy, shy). I decided marry my ex-boyfriend (now my hb) when it suddenly came after a mature time whereby....Everyday I open my eyes, I still WANT to see him. Everytime we part, my heart still FEELS very sad. Everyday I MUST still hear his voice. Every moment , I still WISH to hold his hand.In spite of all our differences, I still WANT to grow old with him.Care to share why u marrying/married ur partner? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mousehunt 0 Report post Posted July 19, 2007 Hey peopleHow do you know when you really want to marry that person?Mmmh...let me share mine (shy, shy). I decided marry my ex-boyfriend (now my hb) when it suddenly came after a mature time whereby....Everyday I open my eyes, I still WANT to see him. Everytime we part, my heart still FEELS very sad. Everyday I MUST still hear his voice. Every moment , I still WISH to hold his hand.In spite of all our differences, I still WANT to grow old with him.Care to share why u marrying/married ur partner?Actually, my ideal woman is to have the following attributes,1. Must be at least 1.65m2. Must know how to swim. (So I don't need to save her if she is in the water. 3. Must know how to cycle.4. Know how to play piano is a super bonus. 5. Must learn to appreciate music/songs.In the end, the woman that become my wife fulfill point 1 only. Why??? Most of the time, love is blind! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
yellow 0 Report post Posted July 19, 2007 Oh yeah...my hb and I seldom quarrelled. But since we moved into our house, we quarrelled more about housework. In the end, we have a heart to heart talk and I decided to cool everything down but doing everything myself without asking him. In the end, he seems to be taking more initiative to offer to help me.So it's a win-win situation. Meanwhile, I never stop trying finding things that can help me to lessen the housework. C currently aiming at the vaccuming robots Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
korea 0 Report post Posted July 19, 2007 Hey peopleHow do you know when you really want to marry that person?Mmmh...let me share mine (shy, shy). I decided marry my ex-boyfriend (now my hb) when it suddenly came after a mature time whereby....Everyday I open my eyes, I still WANT to see him. Everytime we part, my heart still FEELS very sad. Everyday I MUST still hear his voice. Every moment , I still WISH to hold his hand.In spite of all our differences, I still WANT to grow old with him.Care to share why u marrying/married ur partner?hey, same leh. this is why i married my hb lor. Actually, my ideal woman is to have the following attributes,1. Must be at least 1.65m2. Must know how to swim. (So I don't need to save her if she is in the water. 3. Must know how to cycle.4. Know how to play piano is a super bonus. 5. Must learn to appreciate music/songs.In the end, the woman that become my wife fulfill point 1 only. Why??? Most of the time, love is blind!i only fulfill 1, 2 and 5. hahaha. korea at least your hb pampers u very much. imagine those with hb like wooden block etc... yup, sometimes he really pampers me. recently, he surprised me with a brilliant rose diamonds tennis bracelet. i like it very much! the bracelet cost him 7k. the total carat weight is 2 carats. sometimes, with surprises in life are very impt. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Homeowner 1 Report post Posted July 19, 2007 Actually, my ideal woman is to have the following attributes,1. Must be at least 1.65m2. Must know how to swim. (So I don't need to save her if she is in the water. 3. Must know how to cycle.4. Know how to play piano is a super bonus. 5. Must learn to appreciate music/songs.In the end, the woman that become my wife fulfill point 1 only. Why??? Most of the time, love is blind!Haha. Your list of requirements is so cute! May I ask why the piano playing ability is included? Do you play the violin or piano so that you both do a duet? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mousehunt 0 Report post Posted July 19, 2007 I used to learn Electone organ but I always wanted to learn the piano. So if I have a wife that plays piano, it is better than owning a iPhone or iPod!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Homeowner 1 Report post Posted July 19, 2007 (edited) Hahaha. That's funny. I came out with a list when I was Sec 4 for some speech thingy. Can't remember all that was on the list. But, amongst the requirements that I can remember were violin/piano playing skill, a good sense of humour, no body odour, intelligence,... My teacher said that she was a Capricon and Capricons have two feet firmly on the ground and know that it is impossible to find such a person. She added that if I ever did, I should bring him back to show her. Guess what? I did meet such a person in JC. But, he was ALWAYS surrounded by groups of girls!My hubby doesn't have all the attributes, quite close lah... but I'm satisfied. Hahah Edited July 19, 2007 by Homeowner Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
korea 0 Report post Posted July 19, 2007 I used to learn Electone organ but I always wanted to learn the piano. So if I have a wife that plays piano, it is better than owning a iPhone or iPod!!!wow, you know how to play electone organ? then you and your wife should take up piano lesson. Hahaha. That's funny. I came out with a list when I was Sec 4 for some speech thingy. Can't remember all that was on the list. But, amongst the requirements that I can remember were violin/piano playing skill, a good sense of humour, no body odour, intelligence,... My teacher said that she was a Capricon and Capricons have two feet firmly on the ground and know that it is impossible to find such a person. She added that if I ever did, I should bring him back to show her. Guess what? I did meet such a person in JC. But, he was ALWAYS surrounded by groups of girls!My hubby doesn't have all the attributes, quite close lah... but I'm satisfied. Hahah sometimes, reality and dreams are different lor. it's very difficult to meet someone of your dreams. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Homeowner 1 Report post Posted July 19, 2007 (edited) It's okay lah. I'm content. I think I'm no great trophy either, it would be tough to keep such a charmer by my side. Edited July 19, 2007 by Homeowner Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
korea 0 Report post Posted July 19, 2007 It's okay lah. I'm content. I think I'm no great trophy either, it would be tough to keep such a charmer by my side. yup, agreed. it's tough to keep such a charming person by the side. bound to attract many "bees". Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Homeowner 1 Report post Posted July 19, 2007 Hahaha. I'm an Aquarian...we are idealists! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
yellow 0 Report post Posted July 19, 2007 hey i am a capricon too! ya we are too practical n realistic..n i exactly have the same sediments as your teacher. I capricon too.... hey, same leh. this is why i married my hb lor. i only fulfill 1, 2 and 5. hahaha. yup, sometimes he really pampers me. recently, he surprised me with a brilliant rose diamonds tennis bracelet. i like it very much! the bracelet cost him 7k. the total carat weight is 2 carats. sometimes, with surprises in life are very impt. Waaa...what a expensive surprise...my hb surprised me recently. He washed clothes in midnight for me to wake up to nice smelling clothes... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
