random_username 0 Report post Posted June 24, 2010 (edited) husband has told me his pay, but i can't remember exact amount down to last penny, just roughly know how much; i also can't remember the exact day of the month he's paid, though he's told me umpteenth times. i've never asked for details either - he wants to tell me, i'll listen, and even after he tells me, no guarantee i can remember (memory retention rate v low lar). he doesn't control what i spend on, i don't even need to ask, but i think that's cos he knows i got internal brake. all that said, i make sure my family is well cared for, the household is well run, payments are timely and savings/investment objectives are met/monitored, so at least there i'm quite on top of things la. Edited June 24, 2010 by random_username Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
