Roflmaoxz 0 Report post Posted May 21, 2007 by the time i'm 35 years old, i guess i'm already used to sleeping in the streets...Why married her when you don't love her? And risk your CPF coffers just to keep this pigoen hole? You okie or not har?? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
applefreak 1 Report post Posted May 21, 2007 think TS is also in a very difficult situationthis is a no-choice solution for himgo look at the other thread that he started Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
therat 18 Report post Posted May 21, 2007 think TS is also in a very difficult situationthis is a no-choice solution for himgo look at the other thread that he startedwhere? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
applefreak 1 Report post Posted May 21, 2007 erm dun rememberdo a search on him lahit's got to do with having another brother popping out of nowhereso he has to find another place to live Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
therat 18 Report post Posted May 22, 2007 erm dun rememberdo a search on him lahit's got to do with having another brother popping out of nowhereso he has to find another place to live ai ya..which forum....he only post this thread in renotalk.I do a google.. got tone of Barc come out..another brother popping out...haha..my BIL also pop out out of sudden.come back to his mother house and stay.When we want to get marry, ask him to stay with his mother so that we can move out. He say.. don't want.. give the reason "bedok is far away from Town". In the end, my husband elder brother , his mother and we stay in my MIL 4 rm flat.Now.. out of sudden come back and share the room with his elder brother. And his elder brother also marry liao. wife stay in JB. But sometime weekend come and stay with her husband (which is the elder brother). Then he go and sleep in the sofa.I want to see.. how long he want to maintence like that...BTW, he don't have a bed.. he has a chair that can bend 30degree down. Like those airplane seat. He sleep on the chair 30 degree down. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
korea 0 Report post Posted May 22, 2007 you hate staying with your in laws, right? are you still staying with them now? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
therat 18 Report post Posted May 22, 2007 you hate staying with your in laws, right? are you still staying with them now? still staying with my MIL since day 1 I get marry.I don't say.. I hate to stay with my MIL but u know.. every women dream to had their own home.I tell u 1 suggestion which suggest by this brotherHe suggestI (alone) brought my MIL 4 room flat.Then he + elder brother + my MIL + my husband go and buy a condo for investment.When I told my friend, my friend ask me. Do u have a share on the profit?If u brought ur MIL flat, her elder son still staying with her , right?Then that mean, u pay the flat to let ur MIL,ur elder BIL to stay. MIL ok.. consister ur mother. Why that elder BIL who earn more than u (he is a manager). will the elder brother give u rent?when i heard it, .. ya lor.. how come I never think abt this.In the end, I told my husband. No.. I don't want to buy ur Mother flat. If I brought, in further our marriage don't work out. As the flat is mine, I will ask ur mother, brother to move out. Don't say.. I didn't tell u in advance.For that onward, I dislike this brother.. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
applefreak 1 Report post Posted May 22, 2007 ai ya..which forum....he only post this thread in renotalk.I do a google.. got tone of Barc come out..paiseh, thought i read the thread in renotalkmaybe the thread got deleted or somethingbasically it was a discussion on what housing alternatives he hashe is quite young, can't afford private property and no girlfriendalso hoping not needing to rent coz it's basically money down the drainhopefully he can find a solution to his problemcan understand how he feelscoz i have been sleeping with my parents in one room for the past five years but finally i've gotten my own place, thanks to my parentsTS not so lucky though... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
korea 0 Report post Posted May 22, 2007 still staying with my MIL since day 1 I get marry.I don't say.. I hate to stay with my MIL but u know.. every women dream to had their own home.I tell u 1 suggestion which suggest by this brotherHe suggestI (alone) brought my MIL 4 room flat.Then he + elder brother + my MIL + my husband go and buy a condo for investment.When I told my friend, my friend ask me. Do u have a share on the profit?If u brought ur MIL flat, her elder son still staying with her , right?Then that mean, u pay the flat to let ur MIL,ur elder BIL to stay. MIL ok.. consister ur mother. Why that elder BIL who earn more than u (he is a manager). will the elder brother give u rent?when i heard it, .. ya lor.. how come I never think abt this.In the end, I told my husband. No.. I don't want to buy ur Mother flat. If I brought, in further our marriage don't work out. As the flat is mine, I will ask ur mother, brother to move out. Don't say.. I didn't tell u in advance.For that onward, I dislike this brother..where are you staying now? have you bought over your MIL's house yet? last time, hubby's sister suggested hubby to buy over my in laws house b'cos blah blah blah that my in laws are getting old. hubby's sister has a lot of s-h-i-t excuses. i told hubby if he were to buy over my in laws house which mean he and i can never buy another new house for ourselves (b'cos one person can't have 2 hdb flats). luckily, hubby didn't listen to his sister's s-h-i-t suggestion. i was so piss off that time. his sister is d-a-m-n selfish and never think for hubby at all. i feel like it's like making use of hubby. from that onwards, i dislike his sisters. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
therat 18 Report post Posted May 22, 2007 where are you staying now? have you bought over your MIL's house yet? last time, hubby's sister suggested hubby to buy over my in laws house b'cos blah blah blah that my in laws are getting old. hubby's sister has a lot of s-h-i-t excuses. i told hubby if he were to buy over my in laws house which mean he and i can never buy another new house for ourselves (b'cos one person can't have 2 hdb flats). luckily, hubby didn't listen to his sister's s-h-i-t suggestion. i was so piss off that time. his sister is d-a-m-n selfish and never think for hubby at all. i feel like it's like making use of hubby. ohh..weekday .. my MIL houseweekend.. my own house..Siao.. bought over my MIL house.. he wait long long..ur is sister making use of her brothermine is brother in law making use of his own brother wife..I more piss off.... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
korea 0 Report post Posted May 22, 2007 (edited) ohh..weekday .. my MIL houseweekend.. my own house..Siao.. bought over my MIL house.. he wait long long..ur is sister making use of her brothermine is brother in law making use of his own brother wife..I more piss off....we're on the same boat lor. i was really d-a-m-n piss off lor. even now sometimes i'm also very piss off with hubby's sisters. the ways they do/handle things, very selfish. that time my MIL was really very ill in hospital (she had passed away) and i was extremely piss off with them. they kept bully hubby to do this and that. his sisters and brother never ever stay overnight in the hospital to accompany my MIL except hubby and i. they'd lots of @#^&% excuses to give! to conclude: i don't have a good impression of hubby's sisters and brother from day 1. Edited May 22, 2007 by korea Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
therat 18 Report post Posted May 22, 2007 (edited) we're on the same boat lor. i was really d-a-m-n piss off lor. even now sometimes i'm also very piss off with hubby's sisters. the ways they do/handle things, very selfish. that time my MIL was really very ill in hospital (she had passed away) and i was extremely piss off with them. they kept bully hubby to do this and that. his sisters and brother never ever stay overnight in the hospital to accompany my MIL except hubby and i. they'd lots of @#^&% excuses to give! to conclude: i don't have a good impression of hubby's sisters and brother from day 1. give me five..I only dislike my husband, 2nd and 4th brother..the elder brother.. after so many year stay together (under 1 root) I arga arga know his character.. so the impression not that bad compare to 1st time. After marry ... even better.. His wife really change him.his 3rd brother and 3rd SIL is the best.His SIL that time also tell my MIL, if she want.. she can come to stay with them (when we plan to get marry) Edited May 22, 2007 by therat Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
korea 0 Report post Posted May 22, 2007 give me five..I only dislike my husband, 2nd and 4th brother..the elder brother.. after so many year stay together (under 1 root) I arga arga know his character.. so the impression not that bad compare to 1st time. After marry ... even better.. His wife really change him.his 3rd brother and 3rd SIL is the best.His SIL that time also tell my MIL, if she want.. she can come to stay with them (when we plan to get marry)five, gal!so you only dislike your hubby's 2nd and 4th brother huh. your hubby has many siblings hor. i always think that the more siblings he has and the more problems. too many mouths so create many problems. anyway, my impression for hubby's siblings will never change. i just hope they live their lives and we live ours. "the well water doesn't provoke the river water". Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
therat 18 Report post Posted May 22, 2007 five, gal!so you only dislike your hubby's 2nd and 4th brother huh. your hubby has many siblings hor. i always think that the more siblings he has and the more problems. too many mouths so create many problems. anyway, my impression for hubby's siblings will never change. i just hope they live their lives and we live ours. "the well water doesn't provoke the river water". yah..he got 4 brothers, 1 sisterbut.. in term of aunt and uncle..I'm the most..until now, he still cannot remember which cousin is belong to which aunt.. hahahaha Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
korea 0 Report post Posted May 22, 2007 yah..he got 4 brothers, 1 sisterbut.. in term of aunt and uncle..I'm the most..until now, he still cannot remember which cousin is belong to which aunt.. hahahahai see. hahaha. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites