ahnah 0 Report post Posted May 4, 2007 99% of the guys WILL take their wives for granted once they are married.That was the reason why I resisted getting married or seeing my partner as a hb dat time. that is life and very normal. It is all about Take and Give. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cornetto 0 Report post Posted May 4, 2007 what happen .... 2 of you know for very long ? or he recently got stress from work ?he always anyhow take mc to meet his frens talk co*k... where got stressed?me merely tried to make conversation wif him when i got home & kena nasty attitude from him liao...hope things can improve... 99% of the guys WILL take their wives for granted once they are married.That was the reason why I resisted getting married or seeing my partner as a hb dat time. my case lagi worse... before marriage alr take me for granted.rom stuff also i handle... reno things also i handle... after reno also i handle... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ahnah 0 Report post Posted May 4, 2007 he always anyhow take mc to meet his frens talk co*k... where got stressed?me merely tried to make conversation wif him when i got home & kena nasty attitude from him liao...hope things can improve... if can .. find a time to talk nicely to him and find out why ... dun drag too long.if need, seek a Family Consultant. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cornetto 0 Report post Posted May 4, 2007 talk liao. now better a bit. if not, will go marriage counselling liao. sigh Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ahnah 0 Report post Posted May 4, 2007 talk liao. now better a bit. if not, will go marriage counselling liao. sighGlad to hear that it works ... cause I ever went in before. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
korea 0 Report post Posted May 4, 2007 he always anyhow take mc to meet his frens talk co*k... where got stressed?me merely tried to make conversation wif him when i got home & kena nasty attitude from him liao...hope things can improve... my case lagi worse... before marriage alr take me for granted.rom stuff also i handle... reno things also i handle... after reno also i handle... wow, your hubby takes mc as and when he wants to talk co*k to his friends?! he prefers to talk co*k to his friends rather than bother about his rice bowl. how old is he? if i were you and i sure wake him up! who paid for the reno? you or your hubby? if he's the one who paid all/more then you took charge of the reno is no problem. for me, hubby paid for all the reno so i took charge of the reno. i'm ok with this. "you qian chu qian, you li chu li". Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LinDa 0 Report post Posted May 4, 2007 (edited) Happy to hear that... hopefully you can still say the same thing when you are celebrating the 21st wedding anniversary like me....Haha, I don't need 21 yrs lor, I marry for 6 yrs feel like 30 yrs marriage can! And, er, ya, I oso all along think you guy lei, maybe coz of yr nick oso la. Hee.. Edited May 4, 2007 by LinDa Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
korea 0 Report post Posted May 4, 2007 Haha, I don't need 21 yrs lor, I marry for 6 yrs feel like 30 yrs marriage can! And, er, ya, I oso all along think you guy lei, maybe coz of yr nick and avatar oso la. Hee.. HSH21 doesn't have avatar leh. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
HSH21 1 Report post Posted May 5, 2007 And, er, ya, I oso all along think you guy lei, maybe coz of yr nick oso la. Hee.. Well... in the net .... no one know who I am... U only know me as what I say ... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
krisietong 0 Report post Posted May 5, 2007 another thing.. after marriage, hubby always raise his voice at me..last time..dating.. everything is yes dear.. u decide dear..haiz.. he just yelled at me when I asked him whether want to hire movers instead of shifting our barang ourselves Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
korea 0 Report post Posted May 5, 2007 another thing.. after marriage, hubby always raise his voice at me..last time..dating.. everything is yes dear.. u decide dear..haiz.. he just yelled at me when I asked him whether want to hire movers instead of shifting our barang ourselvesi'll get a harsh scolding by hubby if i've done something terribly wrong. he'll be very firece! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
krisietong 0 Report post Posted May 5, 2007 i'll get a harsh scolding by hubby if i've done something terribly wrong. he'll be very firece! den what will u do?? i cannot tahan people shouting at me.. I will react back loh..so thats y we sometimes ended up quarrel very fierce Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
korea 0 Report post Posted May 5, 2007 den what will u do?? i cannot tahan people shouting at me.. I will react back loh..so thats y we sometimes ended up quarrel very fierce if i'm the one who had done something wrong then i'll accept hubby's harsh scolding lor. BUT if i didn't do anything wrong and he scolded me for nothing then i'll fight back. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
krisietong 0 Report post Posted May 5, 2007 if i'm the one who had done something wrong then i'll accept hubby's harsh scolding lor. BUT if i didn't do anything wrong and he scolded me for nothing then i'll fight back. hahaha..GIRLS POWER!! but the one thing I cannot stand most is him nagging and nagging me... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
korea 0 Report post Posted May 5, 2007 hahaha..GIRLS POWER!! but the one thing I cannot stand most is him nagging and nagging me... haha. it's the opposite way for us. i'm the one who keep nagging at hubby. he can't stand my nagging. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
