Simple Customary Wedding

[denari 0]

I'd just like to ask some q's cos me and my wife intend to make

our customary ceremony a private and simple one.

1) are they any bridal studio that rent out gown & suit just for tea ceremony purposes only?

(we don't intend to engage professional photography services)

2) is it allowed if you don't get 'bros & sis' for the playacting?

(but still will have the car door opening and stuff)

After that, we'll just return the gown/suit and prepare for restaurant dinner between 2 families.

Any comments?

[Zc31 0]

I'd just like to ask some q's cos me and my wife intend to make

our customary ceremony a private and simple one.

1) are they any bridal studio that rent out gown & suit just for tea ceremony purposes only?

(we don't intend to engage professional photography services)

2) is it allowed if you don't get 'bros & sis' for the playacting?

(but still will have the car door opening and stuff)

After that, we'll just return the gown/suit and prepare for restaurant dinner between 2 families.

Any comments?

Wedding is btw both of you and if parents are fine with it, franly there's no hard and fast rules of whether can or cannot.

1) Yes, called something like ROM package or something. Usually w/o photography

2) Mine also not goign to have. Open door such stuff also dun haf

[denari 0]

I'd just like to ask some q's cos me and my wife intend to make

our customary ceremony a private and simple one.

1) are they any bridal studio that rent out gown & suit just for tea ceremony purposes only?

(we don't intend to engage professional photography services)

2) is it allowed if you don't get 'bros & sis' for the playacting?

(but still will have the car door opening and stuff)

After that, we'll just return the gown/suit and prepare for restaurant dinner between 2 families.

Any comments?

to add to qns #2, would it violate any tradition rules?

would appreciate some advice / input, esp. those who had similar arrangements.

[Zc31 0]

to add to qns #2, would it violate any tradition rules?

would appreciate some advice / input, esp. those who had similar arrangements.

From what i know, No. If u wanna follow customs and stuff, certain dialect need roast pig, 5 pc gold, kid to jump on ur new bed, eat tangyuang, etc....

[denari 0]

From what i know, No. If u wanna follow customs and stuff, certain dialect need roast pig, 5 pc gold, kid to jump on ur new bed, eat tangyuang, etc....

hi Zc31, thanks for the replies...

may i know what consists of the 'si dian jin'?

i know something like, have to bring canned food when i go fetch the bride in the morning.

got other things need to bring or prepare?

also, can anybody to hold the tea ceremony right? need to recite anything?

[zirhk3355 1]

Shi dian jin refers to the a ring, a necklace and a pair of earrings. That one is to be bought by your mum for the bride.

If going by the traditional way, tea ceremony is to be conducted by the matchmaker, who say blessings for you, your wife and the senior drinking your tea. But nowadays, people tend to get a younger member of the family to do it, usually one that does not need to drink tea, who will just stand there with the tray and pot.

[Zc31 0]

Shi dian jin refers to the a ring, a necklace and a pair of earrings. That one is to be bought by your mum for the bride.

If going by the traditional way, tea ceremony is to be conducted by the matchmaker, who say blessings for you, your wife and the senior drinking your tea. But nowadays, people tend to get a younger member of the family to do it, usually one that does not need to drink tea, who will just stand there with the tray and pot.

Bro, u happen to be drivinig a swift?