Story About The Baastard And The ****...

[Guest Goobii]

Story of a basstard and a sluut... *Real Live Incident*

https://www.facebook.com/pages/Alvin-Yuki/253711181424186

Click "Likes" as that idiot don't believe the story will have more than 1000 hits... or more..

Worse... the sluut slap the victim sister during confrontation... Police report lodged.

Help my friend Yuki ... she needed ur supports.

Edited December 16, 2012 by Goobii

[Guest Goobii]

Extracted from : Alvin & Yuki FACEBOOK blog.

Episode 1- The episode where I end my life.

05.07.2011

After 2 years of courtship and pakto, I was lucky to have you as my boyfriend. We have no problem blending into each other life. Have a very good relationship with your family, the day has come. The most important of my life. You have chosen this important day to propose to me. I remember this date very well as it is the Singapore election date. You have invited my family, close friends to witness the wedding proposal. What a surprise and this day is the day I will not forget such a sweet memories.

20.08.2011

I promise myself this year is going to be the my last day as a single lady. We went to Desaru for a romantic night looking at the firefly around us. Thank you Alvin for arranging such night.

10.09.2011

First time introducing our parent to each other official. The parents agreed our wedding date on the 16.06.2012.

11.2011

Road trip to Melaka. Made a Kebaya for our wedding because your comes from mother peranakan family. Looking forward for my long awaited wedding.

29.01.2012

I really enjoy the process of preparing our wedding although there are some arguments along the way. But i believe we can always learn to compromise and compliment each others. You told me previously that you will be very busy after you transferred into a new department. You asked me whether can you transfer to Hongkong after marriage, as a wife I will fully support you career advancement.

01.02.2012

Chinese new year season. You cleaned your room so that I can move in my things to your house anytime. I am so excited as the day I become Mrs Yang is coming very soon

10.02.2012

You brought your parents family to my hometown Pontian to officially propose to my mother.

17.02.2012

Attended the church pre-wedding camp for three days. Looking forward for this camp as the day we started our relationship is on Christmas. I always think you are the gift from God. We further confirmed our decision to get married after attended this camp and will cherish our love more each day

27.02.2012

My friend Alston proposed for a join honeymoon together. Happily I shared his idea to you. but without asking my opinion you rejected harshly unlike other time where we always discuss. I realize you are losing your patience and losing your temper on me easily these days. Perhaps due to your work stress?

11.03.2012

This is the day the girl officially appeared in our relationship between Yuki and Alvin. You are the best man of your good friend Denson’s wedding. ZR is the brides maid

18.03.2012

We are arranging for our wedding schedule as the wedding is less than 3 months away. You told me any arrangement is fine except 07.04.2012 as you are busy. Why busy? You gave me a lame reason saying that your good friend Denson’s mother in law ask you to organize a surprise birthday party for Denson. Of all people, Denson’s mother in law ask you…. hmmph…..

I asked why Denson mother in law ask you to organize such party while you should be busy about your wedding. You kept quiet.

I asked can I go to the party. You kept quiet.

I knew something wrong, went up and cried. I knew you are hiding something. From this day onwards you have been giving lies to me such as telling me you are working late, busy etc.

01.04.2012

I am trying different wedding gown in the bridal house for our pre-wedding photo shoot. During the pre-wedding photoshoot I can see you playing with SMS/Whatsapp all the time which is unlike the normal you

We have a Salsa dancing shot in the pre wedding video. However you scolded me very harshly because I could not remember the steps. Felt extremely down because I only learnt less than 2 months and lack of practice. We are lack of practice because you are too busy to practice with me and you knew it.

I have learnt compromise each other and said ”Dear, on our wedding day, if I dance badly, can you please don’t scold me so harshly?”

10.04.2012

My friend asked me to share how we met and our wedding preparation process. I told them with joy but broke down into tears in the toilet. My instinct told me that there is something not right. You said your boss told you to think twice before getting married as we may have changed. To my surprise after your boss told you this you asked me to reconsider whether should we get married

11.04.2012

My sister and future brother in law Dobby and Shaun and myself are having lunch with you near your office. You broke your temper to me suddenly. Broking down to tears, Dobby and Shaun comfort me that perhaps you are too stressed up with work

12.04.2012 – this is the day

After so many days of quarrel you called me to date me for dinner. Bought flower and chocolate to your room for a little surprise. As I need to do some work, I on your computer and found a love letter from ZR to you.

<<Love letter from ZR>>

From: ZR

Sent: 05 April 2012 23:23

To: Yang, Alvin: Operations (SGP)

Subject: Baby love

Hi Baby,

Thank you for the wonderful day. Just 14 hours ago, you were at my place. picking me for a start of a wonderful day.

Ive been to so many theme parks. With so many people. I've never bought a thing cause I never felt it was worth it.

But today I wanted something so badly that I walked into practically every shop which I usually wont either, in search for something anything that I could bring home and be reminded of you.

I wanted the drawing of us badly. Very badly that I turned back and look at the spot even after we walked away.

I never held a hand so tightly before, wishing and hoping that I never had to let go. Never had I been so emotional, I scared myself.

I guess you are different.

Love,

Darling

>>>>>>

14 Mar 2012

I was stunned looking at the love letter. Not knowing what to do and is only 1 hour away from our date, I forget about this love letter and proceed to enjoy the dinner with you.

After the dinner I proposed to have a walk by the beach. I learnt in the pre wedding camp that we should always forgive each other and cherish our love together. I apologize to you as I may have lose some temper on you. you kept quiet.

Suddenly you broke the silence by saying that you want to break up and cancel our wedding which is 2 months from now.

I cried and beg you not to make such decision. I even forgot all about the love letter in your computer.

You rejected me harshly and firmly. You told me that love and marriage is not your main priority. You want to focus on career. You forgotten how you have proposed to me.

I could not stand anymore and mentally collapse. I lost control and jumped into the sea without any hesitate. After jumping I realize that there is no water where I jumped and injured myself by rocks by the sea.

You did not comfort me but scolded me harshly AGAIN that I threaten you by committing suicide. Can you imagine how I felt that time? I lose all hope in life.

I cried and beg you to understand my feeling. You said this and I could never forget this.

“I knew my parents will be very sad and very disappointed with my decision. I still insist on this, it is impossible for me to consider about your feeling”

You have completely ignore me….

Alvin Yang, you are too selfish and cruel. I am completely collapse and disappointed. Words could not express my feeling that time. I do not know how to face you, face the world. The only thing that comes to my mind is death…..

I swam to the sea and do not intend to come back anymore. You did not come chase me back.

You thought I threaten you again.

After sometime you finally swam and wants to catch me back. However our distance is very far away. You cried and beg me to come back by I really lose hope in life at that particular moment. You shouted that it is so deep and you could not feel the base of the sea, I soft hearted and concern about your safety I swam back.

I was so calm that time. You were very panicked. You even hit me hard at my neck as I am trying to pull you back to the shore. So hard that I almost got choked by you.

We are back at the shore and we agree to have 2 weeks to think clearly on our decision. Not long later my family came by.

I promise you that I will not tell them what happened until you gave me answer. I was badly injured physically and mentally. you do not even dare to look at me when my family come to pick me up.

You has forgotten about your promise and vow when you proposed to me. You said I am the one you love, your fiancé.

To be continued...

[Guest Goobii]

第二集-我和小三见面，小三打我­姐姐。我们法庭见。

13.04.2012> 跳海后的第二天，有个朋友传来简­讯，看见你和一个瘦小的女子在D­empsey Dome Cafe有说有笑的分享一份甜品­。你没打算过来看看我的伤势如何­，却有时间和那女人见面？我从房­间冲出客厅要家人快点把窗户都关­紧，因为我已失控的有想跳楼的念­头。家人告诉我早上已偷看了我的­手机，读了那封情书。家人彻夜无­法入眠，轮流看着我，怕我做傻事­。

15.04.2012> 因为怕我情绪不稳定，家人不敢留­我一人在家，把我带出去吃早餐。­姐姐停好车下车一会儿，不知为何­我在车里感到很害怕， 歇斯底里的吼叫说车里有很多的魔­鬼包围着我。我拼了命的拍打车窗­要姐姐来救我。家人吓得赶紧带我­去附近的Holy Trinity教堂见神父。他给­了我一条十字架项链，然后带我到­祈祷室祷告。心情平静后，突然我­听见有人在我耳边说“耶稣在骗你­，他没在听你说话”。我忿怒的把­手中的十字架丢向耶稣，指着耶稣­骂：你在骗我！接着我在教堂里崩­溃失控的哭叫了许久才被安抚下来­。

18.04.2012> 你通知我一起去China Club 庆祝你妹妹Alicia的生日（­本来是酒店婚宴试菜的日子。一家­人能一起吃饭，我妹妹Dobby­安慰我说我们应该没事了。当你父­母问我为何受伤时，我只说是为了­追个差点掉进海里的小孩而跌伤了­。那晚你温柔的搂着我，是为了做­戏给你家人看还是你真的关心我？­我在你车上看见喝了半罐的凉茶。­ 我知道你不喝那种凉茶。后来我才­知道是她故意留下的。

23.04.2012> 早上你接ZR上班，12点多时Z­R来你公司附近吃午餐。下午，你­约我晚上见面吃饭。（ 你的行动还真快，才和她吃完午饭­你就拨电约我。是不是你们商量好­该如何解决我了，赶紧请我吃最后­一顿丰富的晚餐让我一路好走？）­我怕见你，怕得全身发抖，需要D­obby马上带我去教堂祈求主给­我智慧和勇气来面对你。

一上车我又看见了你从没买过已喝­剩半瓶的果汁。我们去了一间我最­爱的幸福日本餐厅吃晚餐后，送我­回家路上全程安静的你终于在到我­家路口时说出口了：你会通知你父­母我们的婚礼决定取消，你说婚礼­取消就等于分手（没有商量的余地­）。我坚持要与你见你的父母一起­商量。到你家后你就对你父母说：­因为筹备婚礼意见不和经常争吵所­以你不想结婚。（其实我们最多不­是斗斗嘴，小吵一下很快就过去了­吗？你不是在你朋友面前称赞过我­是个独立会自己做事的新娘吗？）­你的父母觉得筹备婚礼闹变扭很平­常，你的理由不足以造成婚礼取消­那么严重。你父亲和你单独在房里­谈了一会出来时说“我的儿子已经­不像我的儿子了”。。。他说什么­问题都不是问题，最重要是你们之­间还有没有爱？就算结局不完美，­也要以最完善的方式来处理。你的­父亲要我们接受辅导和再努力尝试­，不要轻易放弃。

当晚在ZR在Twitter里写­：I can finally sleep well。因为Alvin终于正­式向他父母提出取消婚礼的决定了­。

我的好友也帮我查出你们频密约会­的证据：

04.04.2012> 你到ZR 办公的Abaccus Toastbox 一起吃午餐。

07.04.2012> 你驾着你父亲的车载ZR一起去东­部渡假屋Denson的生日庆祝­会。

08.04.2012> 早上你又驾着你父亲的车载ZR去­吃了早餐才来载我去Momo&M­oomoo的复活节家庭午餐聚会­。

11.04.2012> 一大早你就带她到Raffles­ Starbucks@liat towers吃早餐，而且还送了­她一束你一向不喜欢的太阳花。送­花人：姜饼人(Ginger Bread Man).

Alvin....11.04.­2012前你就开始变成ZR的姜­饼人(Ginger Bread Man)!!!

19.04.2012> 你载她到Paradise Dynasty Ion 吃晚餐。

21.04.2012> 你们到Taka的Angus Steak House 吃牛排。

22.04.2012> 堂妹HuiHan的午餐生日聚会­你特意不通知我出席。却很有心的­Send你妈妈煮的菜的照片给Z­R看。

30.04.2012> 你的父母正式知道关于小三存在的­事，大家决定先不公开指责你。所­以你不知道我已默默地在你身边开­始了长达三个多月“假装”的不知­道；努力挽回你的心却对自己残忍­的忍受你一直欺骗我的日子。

04.05.2012> 你说要见面谈谈，我建议就在你家­里好了。 我特意打扮了一番，煮了晚餐等你­来。

Yuki:希望你能珍惜我们两年­多来的感情，是不是有第三者造成­我们感情触礁？(我勇敢地问是为­了让你对我坦白后可以原谅你。)

Alvin: 没有。我们的感情在三个月前就出­问题，我发现那时我的生活没有你­也可以很开心。

Yuki： 你可能讨厌的是婚礼，而不是不爱­我？

Alvin: 我同意可能是这样。我人心软所以­那时没说是我不对。现在我还是心­软的，不如我们“试用期”一个月­。就当我自私点，为的是不让“我­自己”后悔。

Yuki： 我不想讨好你而失去原来的我，但­一个月内如果我做得不好我随时会­被你刷掉，你好像在逼我走钢线的­感觉，我随时会跌得粉身碎骨。你­会怕失去我吗？

Alvin: 不会！(听了我的心都碎了。那你­还在试什么？)

Yuki: 与其让你不快乐，我决定连一个月­都放弃了，我想让你自由让你快乐­。。。我希望你比我快乐。

Alvin: 听了反而跳下床握紧我的手哭跪着­问我：你真的连我给你的一个月都­不要吗？你确定吗？（我很失望你­给我的竟是这样的对白。）

Yuki: 如果我们分手后你会很快轻易的爱­上别的女人吗？

Alvin摇头认真的说:不会。­（我的心在流泪了，因为你还是在­说谎，笨蛋，我已知道她的存在）­。

我们一直聊天聊到凌晨， 你抱紧着我数度难过痛苦地哭泣，­我们一起回忆从前。其实我们已回­到以前亲密恩爱的感觉，只是你没­查觉到。

05.05.2012>一向20­0%信任你的我，第一次忍不住的­查看你的另一个手机。我惊讶的看­到你记录着ZR的生日在06.0­6。而且她传来的简讯写着：刚好­一个月！我恍然大悟，原来你们是­说好用一个月“试用期”来解决掉­我。原来你只是为了制造假象：我­们曾经尝试了一个月但还是不行，­好让你有充足的理由和我分手也容­易向亲朋戚友交代。这是你预先为­她准备好的生日礼物吗？

我要求试用期延长至我生日的八月­底，我说就算打工试用期都有三个­月。这应该不过分。去年的我生日­才宣佈2011是我最后一个单身­生日，今年你要我一个人孤单的过­吗？

结果下午ZR 3:44pm又传简讯骂你是大骗­子。

才一个星期多没坐过你的车，一上­车我就发现我的座位移动了，车里­塞了几种你平时不吃的零食，最让­我惊吓的是后车厢竟然有不属于我­和你母亲，妹妹的衣裙！

ZR在我的地盘插旗和我宣战了吗­？为何故意留下证据让我知道她的­存在呢？

你的父亲对我透露原来在03.0­5.12，你父母曾到ZR办公楼­附近约你们见面。他们质问你们为­什么买情侣表，又提醒ZR我们已­订婚两个月内将结婚，希望你们保­持距离。

ZR回应：Uncle，Aunt­y， 我已有很要好的男朋友，手表是男­友在波士顿卖给我的礼物。我很珍­惜我们的感情的。我知道Alvi­n要结婚了，我也已受邀参加Al­vin的婚礼。我们只是要好的朋­友。

06.05.2012> 今天是我们求婚周年日， 当我在默默倒数着想要对你说。。­。准准不差12am却被ZR抢先­打电话给你。在我面前你很慌张的­应付了她几句，告诉她你和你的女­友在一起就挂了电话。我很难过但­还是对你说了：亲爱的，求婚周年­日快乐。希望你还记得我们是相爱­着的，记得你当初为了什么想娶我­而求婚。我爱你。下车前，我忍住­眼泪对你说：“我是你的未婚妻”­，不只是你的女友。请你自重。

08.05.2012> 我们说好补庆祝求婚周年日。我建­议去Mount Fable JewelBox用晚餐，结果你­还是带我到最靠近我家东部的Ka­tong Shopping Center随意决定的吃Sha­bu-Shabu。我知道你没有­心，但我们能在一起庆祝，我很满­足了。 我们拍了一些合照，你不准我放我­们的合照在FB。10pm你就把­我送回家了。

11.05.2012> 我们和你父亲到酒店把婚宴延迟到­年底：07.12.2012.我­们决定了以你婶婶生病为理由通知­女方家长，和受邀的亲友们我们的­婚期会延迟进行。我觉得很难过用­你的婶婶的病情做藉口，万一我们­真的无法完婚，外界所有责任不是­要怪在她的身上吗？为何要让你至­亲的婶婶为你扛责任？

12.05.2012> 突然收到朋友的来电告诉我她和男­友09.05.2012看见你和­ZR在Mount Fable JewelBox用晚餐, 原本她不想说，因为知道我们的婚­期只在一个月后。 我完全听傻了，那不是我在前一天­要你去庆祝我们求婚周年日的地方­吗？

我受不了了，当晚我问你：真的没­有第三者吗？你说：没有。我问你­：还有心挽救我们的感情吗？你说­：有，还要再试。。。但有个条件­：不准我以后在你家过夜。（这种­条件你也说得出口，白痴都知道这­是ZR和你谈好的条件吧？）

13.05.2012> 我们在MOMO&MOOMOO为­你母亲庆祝母亲节。

17.05.2012> 前男友Joe约我喝咖啡，问我我­们的感情是否有问题，因为Alv­in突然主动Email Joe 要他帮忙介绍TOYOTA行销的­工作给一个叫Zonia Raymond的女孩。 你居然叫我的前男友帮你的新欢的­妹妹找工作？

Joe骂我傻为什么自己全部忍着­瞒着好友们？我在他面前羞愧得哭­了。我觉得你让我好丢脸，好委屈­。Joe是曾经那么的祝福我说：­他很放心也为我开心能遇到像你这­样会爱惜我的男人呀！ 他安慰我说现在你可能只是一时贪­新鲜，一时糊涂。为我加油。

18.05.2012> 10pm 我没听从你“事先安排好的时间指­示”在你家等你回来。你和刚从泰­国回来的ZR吃晚餐。回来时你一­看到我在房间就吓了一跳。我说我­想和你喝两杯。你嫌弃又不耐烦地­告诉我快点喝了酒早点回家。我说­今晚我会在这里过夜既然明早会一­起回笨珍见我妈妈。你突然对我大­吼叫说：我不是警告过你不准在我­家过夜吗？我要我的隐私权，你马­上离开，不然我就睡楼下。（你是­在和你的未婚妻说不准她进入你曾­经告诉她这是将来能带给她幸福美­满的家吗？）

我无法用言语形容我当下的心情，­我的自尊完全被你踩在脚底了。脑­子一片空白。我心寒的说这是“你­的房间”，该睡楼下的是我。

我感觉彷徨无助就通知了在越南渡­假的妹妹Dobby， 她很担心的马上通知你的父亲照顾­我。正当你父亲在安慰我时，你却­换了衣服冲出去。即使你父亲叫住­你，拨电给你你都不要回来，你还­骂他不要再插手管你的事！我只好­追出去找你，当我问你你恨我吗？­你说不会，你只是要自由，你要隐­私权，你要个人空间！（我就是在­问，你恨我挡在你和ZR之间是吗­？）

我很累了，我的灵魂与身心都已受­伤了。我也忍不住对你父亲说出我­跳海的事和你对我说的每一句狠话­。

19.05.2012〉早上我不­理你，出门去车行把我的车给卖了­，因为多次在车里奔溃差点出车祸­让家人都不放心我继续开车。买完­车后回你家，看见的那一幕让我难­忘。你的母亲双眼红肿，一看就知­道哭了一整晚。我好心疼。当我安­慰她时，你母亲说你的父亲更难过­更需要安慰。我实在受不了看到这­样的画面。当我见你父亲时，我看­见一位父亲忧郁而沉重地在书写着­信件给他的儿子。他希望能唤醒你­们的父子之情，希望他们一直可爱­善良的儿子能觉悟。

21.05.2012〉你爸把信­交了给你后为了表示他对你的不满­和反对你的行为就拒绝和你说话，­我们的婚事把你和家人的感情破坏­成这样让我很难过。

26.05.2012〉一早你来­我家接我回笨珍，你突然改变主意­打算跟我母亲说延迟婚礼是因为我­们感情出了问题，而不是说因为婶­婶生病？其实你是蛮害怕面对我母­亲的。我何尝不也是害怕吗？

奇怪的是，进入我家后你给我妈妈­的原因却是因为你婶婶健康出问题­，家人都很受打击而想延迟婚礼至­07.12.2012。我的妈妈­虽然失望却只能欣然接受和谅解男­方的处境。

突然妈妈哭了，他对你说：他老了­又有心藏病，也不知会活多久，如­果注定不幸看不到最后两个女儿结­婚，也希望你记得求婚时握着妈妈­的手曾经说过你会照顾我，爱护我­，给我幸福。

晚上Dobby拨电给我说其实妈­妈一早就知道你背叛我的事，只是­家人们事先通知她千万别责骂你因­为我们俩还在努力挽回感情中。以­免增加我们之间的裂痕和压力。妈­妈其实天天打电话问姐妹们我的近­况，她想来新加坡看我却被姐妹们­阻止了要假装不知道让我专心挽回­我的婚姻。我听了后心很绞痛。 原来我所谓的努力。。。竟伤透了­我家里的每一个人，尤其是年迈的­妈妈。我很内疚。

23.05.2012〉我们在家­为你母亲庆祝生日。

27.05.2012〉你父亲和­我们在书房里聊，他对你说他已把­我看成未来准媳妇了。有时即使是­他儿子做错事他也不会偏袒自己的­儿子。因为你公公也是这样。他希­望我们好好好努力尽力的维持我们­的感情。我非常感动您父亲如此的­肯定我在杨家的身份。但你呢？ 我的朋友教我。。。如果要知道你­老公又没有出轨，察看你们的避孕­套数目就知道了。听起来很Aun­ty hor, 但我还是数了。我前一阵子数过，­有一盒12包全新没开过。现在只­剩下两个。

04.06.2012〉一大早外­国的朋友打电话问我为什么婚礼的­FB邀请-Page突然被你取消­和删除。我们不是说好了延迟婚礼­吗？不是还在挽回感情吗？为什么­没通知双方家长和身为准新娘的我­，也没得到我们的同意？为什么任­意删除里头都是我好朋友的邀请P­AGE？完全忽视我的朋友。

难道这就是你送给ZR最好的生日­礼物的行动证明？

05.06.2012〉你父亲原­先想找ZR再谈，但越想越气认为­她不配和你父母坐下来谈，觉得有­失身份。他说让让Dobby和S­haun 代表找ZR谈也可以。当我问我可­否以未婚妻的身份去质问ZR时他­们也赞成我绝对有这个身份去找她­，只是一再提醒我千万别动手打人­惹官司就不好。十一点多的时候送­我回家。他们不知道其实我已吞了­十多粒的安眠药再加红酒，我的家­人又再一次被我惊吓。

Shaun & Dobby知道我很痛心你陪ZR­庆祝生日，也顾不了气愤地决定到­ZR的家通知她的父母让他们知道­她们的女儿在破坏我们的婚姻。当­然只在公寓楼下大厅的Inter­com和ZR的母亲谈了几句他们­就走了。ZR的父母说会问清楚她­们的女儿。

06.06.2012－ZR的生­日〉你先是对我说昨晚你在朋友家­喝酒很醉了所以没回家。过了一会­应该是你收到Shaun和Dob­by上门找人的事而大发脾气。你­不断地传了很多辱骂我和我家人的­简讯。我读着你骂我的每一句话，­我的心真的伤透了。为什么做错事­的是你，被辱骂的是我？最后一句­：我没欠你任何解释，我们到此为­止！ Bye！（一个Bye就解决我了­？） 你在FB把你的Engaged status拿掉。因为是ZR的­生日吧。

07.06.2012〉早上，S­haun他们联络上了ZR的男友­VS让我和他交谈。他一开口就一­直和我道歉，说对不起没提早知会­我关于你的出轨。他从没买过那支­手表给ZR。他发现ZR在他们三­年的感情里“又再次”背叛他，而­且这次是即将结婚的男人。是他提­出分手的。可能我们两个都是受害­者，只说了几句话我就聊不下去，­哭得无法再说话了。

ZR的母亲与shaun的电话.­

ZR 母亲：（很激动的口气）你不要诬­赖我的女儿，我的家教很严的。我­已经问过她。他们是通过Dens­on和Jing认识的。他们现在­只是朋友。Alvin告诉我女儿­，他和未婚妻YUKI的感情在去­年十二月就出现问题了。Alvi­n已经和我通过电话，他说他会摆­平叫我不用担心。

Shaun：Alvin 和Yuki本来16.06.20­12要结婚了你们知道吗？

ZR母亲：Hmm..不知道，现­在听你说才知道。

Shaun：那么说你们见过Al­vin 了？

ZR母亲：hmm...erh.­..没有。

Shaun: 现在Alvin那样对Yuki，­你们还能接受他？

ZR母亲：现在当然不行，hmm­...但是半年后就很难说了，将­来的事谁能担保？

Shaun: VS现在还和ZR在一起吗？

ZR母亲：hmm...我不知道­。但我对V很失望，为什么他会和­你们这种人交谈来往？

13.06.2012〉我在家人­的鼓励和陪同下，决定和ZR谈谈­。他约我们在咖啡厅见面。她带了­一位同事随行。才发现这同事Me­lvin是和Dobby认识多年­的好朋友。他直接说：我也是男人­，如果是我偷吃弄到这种局面我就­应该在这里解决问题。今天在这里­的男人应该不是我。（我非常同意­Melvin的说法。）

我们和ZR的谈话内容：

Dobby：为什么Alvin 没来？

ZR：我叫他一起来的，但他说他­来了会更乱。叫我和你们谈就行了­。（没有种的男人）

Dobby：你为什么要破坏别人­的感情？

ZR：我没有。

Dobby： 你不准看（指着ZR），她把情书­交给了Melvin看，Melv­in读了直摇头。

Dobby把我们的婚照放在ZR­面前，她低着头不敢看。

Dobby：我很期待Alvin­下来保护你的，就好像以前他保护­我姐姐一样。可惜他没有。

Yuki：为什么缠着我未婚夫不­放？

ZR：都说了好多遍，我们只是好­朋友.而且在你的家人找上门后我­们就没见面了。Yuki对你自己­有点自信好吗？

Yuki：朋友为什么买情侣表？

ZR：（眼睛不断打转）哦。。。­这其实不是情侣表，是我,Alv­in 和Jing三人一起买的。

Yuki：那为什么骗Alvin­ 父母是你男友VS送的？

ZR: Oh...是Alvin要我这么­说的。是他要我说谎的。

Yuki：你确定是三人买三支吗­？还要再编谎话吗？我有证据证明­真相你知道吗？

ZR：担心。。。不敢答。

Yuki：为什么经常坐我未婚夫­的车？

ZR： 他只是载我去Studio拍照而­已。（你是谁？）

Yuki：你为什么明知道他要结­婚了，还一直和他约会？

ZR：是他一直来找我的。（你不­自动他是订婚的男人吗？）

Yuki：为什么那么阴险要放东­西在他车上给我看？

ZR： Oh。。。我们很多朋友都有坐过­他的车，东西不是我一个人的。

Yuki：你以为我现在才知道你­的存在吗？你不是第一天就想要我­找到你吗？你不知道我是你的粉丝­有在FOLLOW你吗？

ZR：哑口无言。。。

Yuki：小妹妹，你最好学会保­护你自己当我以为Alvin会敢­敢在这里保护你，但证明他没胆，­我问什么你最好老实的回答我。我­在这里不是陪你玩的。

ZR：静静。。。眼珠打转。

Yuki：我一早就可以找你对峙­，但我没这么做是因为我希望Al­vin自己可以反省，觉悟，让他­做出自己的选择。（还不公平吗？­）大家都是成年人所以我想用文明­的方式来处理。 但你为什么一直缠着他不放？

ZR：我们真的只是朋友，见面吃­饭而已。

Yuki：你还在演戏？这么会演­为什么当Blogger干脆去当­演员你一定红。你要自己老实说还­是要我把这事公开在网络你才一一­对网民解释？

ZR：她的表情有点担心了。

Yuki：你知道我们的婚期延迟­到年底吗？

ZR：我知道，Alvin有告诉­我。（你们还真要好，我想Alv­in很多好朋友都不知道吧）

Yuki：我明白他可能会犯错。­那为什么当他已回头答应修补我们­的感情的时候，你还是不肯放手？­一直拉着他？

ZR：我没有，我不知道你们在修­补。 （你很废话，知道我们延迟婚礼不­知道我们在修补?)

Dobby：Alvin对我姐姐­是一见钟情。他带你约会的地方都­带我姐姐和我家人去过。所以我们­知道你们去哪里。

ZR马上不打自招的澄清：我的新­床单是我自己买的，我有做工我付­得起，Ok?（我们有问你床单吗­？）

Dobby: By the way想告诉你Incase你不­知道 ，不要一直抱着那姜饼人Ging­er Bread Man拍那么多照向Alvin示­爱，很丑很恶心。乖，那玩具收起­来好吗？（说真的，我同意，我听­了在偷笑）

ZR一脸的尴尬。

Yuki：是不是你主动先勾引A­lvin?

ZR: 你需要说到那么难听吗？你应该去­问Alvin.

Yuki：我再一次问你,是你先­主动吗？

ZR: 我们有必要解释这个问题吗？

Yuki：当然有必要，因为这问­题是代Alvin父母和我自己问­的，因为Alvin在我们心目中­不会是这样的人。她一向来很乖，­但在认识你之后整个人一夜间就变­了。他的父母无法接受，我也一样­！这全都是因为你介入而引起的！­你们第一次的犯错我能原谅，但我­不能明白，你明知道这个女人在受­到打击自杀了，过后努力挽救她的­婚姻，你为什么还是要抢？

ZR：我不知道你自杀！

Yuki：你敢说你不知道！！！­你有良心吗？这样的你在他旁边都­安心的睡得下？

ZR静着不敢反驳了。我说着就着­流泪了。。。

Yuki：你认为身为他的未婚妻­（出式我的钻戒），我现在不能一­巴掌打你吗？肯定没人敢拉住我，­因为你本来就该打！而且我YUK­I如果要打人，我会MAKE SURE我把你打到趴在地上爬。­为什么我没这么做？就因为我们都­是女人。女人不打女人，女人不伤­女人。你明白吗? 你不觉得自己歉我一个对不起吗？

ZR: 对不起咯。（没歉疚的口气）

Yuki：今天你遇到的是我，你­在这样下去总有一天会遇到比我疯­狂，比我狠的女人来收拾你。你要­做第三者你就要做好准备随时走在­街上让人打骂．

ZR: （她很不爽了）我相信如果你们的­感情够牢固，没人可以动摇你们呀­。

Dobby受不了的回答：我想你­还是听不懂我姐姐在教你什么，要­你明白什么。

我：Ok, 你等着瞧，这些证据我会收着，今­天你说你们之间没什么，那我就等­到你们正式在一起的那天我才帮你­们公布你的丑事。（这样你们就不­用躲了）

ZR：有需要这样吗？我说对不起­，OK?

我：静而不答

ZR：Ok, Ok该说的都说了，还有什么要说­吗？ 没有我就走了。

当ZR走开时，姐姐们问我为什么­就这样放过她？我只能无奈的说她­都已经默认了，我还能怎样？如果­我打她我的品格和行为就会像她一­样很低级。我打她她就可以在Al­vin面前扮可怜再捅我一刀，何­必呢？

说完我就和Dobby, Shaun走向停车场。当时我脑­子已一片空白，过后在停车场哭泣­得不能自我。直问自己连ＺＲ都敢­认了，我该接受事实你已背叛我了­吗？

姐姐JN不服气的去追ZR责问她­, 而大肚子的妹妹因为担心姐姐JN­冲动做错事而追了上去。姐姐JN­骂ZR什么不好做，做第三者，破­坏别人婚姻。

相信ZR已被激怒了,说时快那时­快，当她转身的时候我大肚子妹妹­手中的咖啡失手泼在ZR 的身上。而ZR已伸手愤怒的打了­姐姐JN一巴掌。JN整个人被突­如其来的一巴掌打得愣住了。反而­ZR还想再冲上前再打我姐姐。幸­亏Melvin拉着ZR，有个路­人经过劝说拉住了我姐姐。不然她­们一定会打起来的。

我接到电话赶到现场才知道被打的­是我姐姐而不是小三。身心灵都已­疲备的我还要亲眼看着姐姐的脸被­打得脸颊红肿发烫,在大庭广众下­当众被小三羞辱。我好心疼的抚住­姐姐的脸。我们都好心酸的忍不住­相拥而泣。后来姐姐去看医生，也­报警备了案。

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Ada Grey

That ugly blogger?!

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Kari Lim

Really bi**h!

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Frank Koh Chia Heng

离开，原本就是爱情与人生的常态。那些痛苦增加了你生命的厚度，有一天，当你也可以微笑地转身，你就会知道，你已经不一样了！爱情终究是一种缘分，经营不来。我们唯一可以经营的，只有自己。

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Rain Nee

让他们身败明勒,看了都一肚子火!

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Geoffery Varchel Ho

I wish my chinese is better.... can only understand abit.... Yuki Ng be strong.... He is not worth , I thought I am bad whenever I quarrel with my wife... but I think he is even worse... and horrible... He don't deserve to be respected. Continue to share your sorrow and unhappiness with all of us. Sometime is better to type it out and tell the whole world.. rather than you hid inside your heart and be sadden by all this incident. Take this as an incident to warn all girls who trying to be a **** and tell all boys to use your HEART to think and not to use your DICK to think... Woman are not easy to STIR and Bullied... which I also learnt during my marriage with my wife. I learn to adapt and accept and give in + respect.

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Jiun Yee

Omg! U r a strong lady!!

Remember I sent u MSG tat I can't attend ur wedding due to my pregnancy..n u told me that ur wedding is postponed..

I'm sure when u wrote this to me ur heart is bleeding..omg!!

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Hey my chinese not so good, but some kind soul provided this translation:

Episode 1 and original chinese version of Episode 2 can be found here; https://www.facebook.com/pages/Alvin-Yuki/253711181424186

To Yuki: You're an amazing woman, the fact that you're sharing your story with everyone is proof enough. Stay strong, all your supporters including myself, are praying for your happiness. Consider it a blessing that you are not married to him yet. I know of other girls who are more unfortunate, but of course, such matters shouldn't be compared.

No matter what happens, I will give you the same advice I give others, do not blame yourself. Accept it, but never blame yourself. You will never be able to move on so long as you blame yourself, don't do that. We will all be more than happy to help you move on.

加油。This translation is yours.

2nd Episode - I met with 'Small 3', 'Small 3' hit my sister. We shall see you in court.

< 13.04.2012 >

The day after I jumped into the sea, a friend of mine sent me a SMS, showing you with a skinny girl talking & laughing at Dempsey Dome Cafe, sharing a dessert.

You clearly had no intention of coming to see how were my injuries, instead, you felt time was better spent on that girl.

I immediately rushed out to the living room, and realized that all the windows were shut tight by my family because they know I've been out of control recently and had suicidal thoughts.

They told me that they had already sneaked a peek at my phone and love letters during the morning. Being so worried to the point that they were unable to sleep, constantly checking up on me, afraid that I would do anything silly.

< 15.04.2012 >

For fear of my emotional instability, my family dare not leave me alone at home, and brought me out for breakfast.

At one point, my sister parked the car and got off for a moment, strangely, I started to feel an overwhelming sense of fear, I could hear a hysterical roar telling me there were demons surrounding me in the car.

I frantically banged on the window, wanting my sister to save me. My family freaked out, and immediately brought me to the nearby Holy Trinity church to see the pastor.

He gave me a cross necklace, and then took me to the prayer room to pray.

After I finally calmed down, all of a sudden, I heard a whisper by my ear saying, "Jesus is lying to you, He isn't listening to you".

In a moment of fury, I threw the cross necklace towards (the image/statue of) Jesus, pointed at Him and scolded, "You're lying to me!" before breaking down & crying for a very long time until I got pacified eventually.

< 18.04.2012 >

You reminded me that we are to go to China Club together to celebrate your sister Alicia's birthday (it was supposed to be the tasting day for our wedding banquet at the hotel), where I would be eating with your family.

My sister Dobby assured me that it'll be fine.

When your father asked me about my injuries, I simply said I got injured while chasing after a little girl who almost fell into the sea.

That night, you put your arms gently around me, was it to put on a show for your family? Or was it because you truly cared for me?

I saw a half-finished can of herbal tea left in your car. I know you don't drink that kind of herbal tea, and it took a while for me to realize that it was deliberately left behind by her.

< 23.04.2012 >

You took ZR to work this morning, around 12PM she came over to your office's vicinity to have lunch. You asked me out for dinner during the afternoon.

(You sure are quick to act, calling me out for a date just after having lunch with her. Is it because you've finished discussing (with her) on how to deal with me, and is now anxious to treat me to one last extravagant dinner in order to bid me farewell?)

I'm afraid to see you, so afraid that I'm shivering all over, I need Dobby to bring me to church immediately for me to pray to God to give me the wisdom and courage to face you.

Once I got into the car, I saw another remnant of hers, a half-finished can of fruit juice which you've never bought before.

We went to my favorite Japanese restaurant for dinner and fetched me home after that. Just before we were about to reach my house, you finally broke the silence saying; you will notify your parents about our decision to cancel the wedding, which is also tantamount to a break up (no room for negotiation).

I insisted on meeting your parents for a discussion together.

After reaching home, you told your parents; because of many disagreements while planning for the wedding, as well as the many quarrels we had, you do not wish to marry me anymore.

(But in actual fact, didn't we only had small arguments every now and then which passed quickly? Didn't you praise me in front of your friends saying that I'm an independent bride who knows how to handle matters by herself?)

Your father felt it was natural for a couple to have small arguments while planning for weddings, and that it isn't reason enough for such a serious decision of cancelling the wedding itself.

After you and your father had your discussion privately in a room, he came out saying, "My son is no longer the same"...

He said that whatever problems between us doesn't matter, what's really important is whether there is any love left between the both of us.

Even if the outcome isn't perfect, we must deal with it as thoroughly as possible. (No regrets/lingering affections)

Your father wants us to accept counselling and continue trying our best to reconcile, not just giving up so easily.

That night, ZR posted on Twitter; "I can finally sleep well. Because Alvin has finally told his parents about his decision of cancelling the wedding."

My good friends have also helped me find some evidence of your secret rendevous with her:

04.04.2012 - You went to Abaccus Toastbox near ZR's office to have lunch together.

07.04.2012 - You drove your father's car to fetch ZR and went to the eastern holiday bungalow to celebrate Denson's birthday.

08.04.2012 - You drove your father's car again in the morning to fetch ZR for breakfast, and then fetched me to Momo & Moomoo's Easter family lunch

gathering.

11.04.2012 - You brought her to Raffles Starbucks @ Liat Towers early in the morning for breakfast, you even gave her a bouquet of sunflowers which

you've never liked from the start. Flower Man : Ginger Bread Man. (?)

Alvin... 11.04.2012 is the day you started to become her Ginger Bread Man!!!

19.04.2012 - You took her to Paradise Dynasty @ Ion for dinner.

21.04.2012 - Both of you had steak at Taka's Angus Steak House.

22.04.2012 - You deliberately did not mention to me about cousin Hui Han's afternoon birthday party, yet had the heart to send ZR photos of the dishes your mom cooked.

30.04.2012 - Your parents already know about 'Small 3', everyone has decided not to openly accuse/point fingers at you. That is why you haven't the slightest clue that I've been keeping quiet about it by your side for more than three months; trying hard to restore your heart, while enduring the days you've been cheating on me.

< 04.05.2012 >

You told me you wanted to meet me and talk things over, I said to meet at your place. I deliberately dressed myself up a little and cooked dinner, awaiting your return.

Yuki: I hope you will cherish our 2 years plus relationship, is it because a third party caused our feelings to run aground? (I boldly asked, so that I could forgive you after you confess.)

Alvin: No. Our feelings started to become unstable 3 months ago, I then realized that I could lead a very happy life even without you.

Yuki: Maybe you don't like the wedding, not because you don't love me?

Alvin: I agree that might be the case. I'm a soft-hearted person that is why I didn't say it was my fault back then. (?)

Even now, I am still soft-hearted, why don't we try giving ourselves a "trial period" of 1 month? Treat it as me being selfish, to free myself from any possible regrets.

Yuki: I do not wish to lose myself in order to appease you, if I do not perform well enough for you within this 1 month period, I risk getting thrown away by you at any time, it's as if you're forcing me onto a tight rope where I could slip and fall at any moment, causing my heart to be shattered into tiny fragments.

Would you be afraid of losing me?

Alvin: I wouldn't! (My heart already shattered upon hearing this, if that's the case, what more do you want to "try"?)

Yuki: Instead of making you unhappy, I decided to give up on that "1 month trial period", I want you to be free and happy... I hope you will be happier than me.

Alvin: *Hearing this, he actually jumped out of bed, kneeled down in front of me, held my hands tightly with tears on his face and said;

You really don't even want the "1 month trial period" I'm giving you? Are you sure? (I am very disappointed that you actually gave me this kind of answer.)

Yuki: If after breaking up, will you easily fall in love with another woman?

Alvin: *Shakes his head and in a serious manner, said;

No. (My heart is crying, because you're still lying, fool, I already know of her existence.)

We then continued chatting til dawn, you hugged me tightly and cried with sadness & pain while we reminisce on our past.

At this point, we had actually returned to our former affectionate selves, you just didn't realize it.

< 05.05.2012 >

All this while, I've always gave you 200% of my trust, this is the first time I couldn't help but check your alternate phone.

I was shocked to see you have saved ZR's birthday on 06.06, and also a text from her that read: "Just nice one month!".

I came to a sudden realization, so both of you were only trying to use the "1 month trial period" to get rid of me.

So you were only trying to create the false impression that: "We've tried to reconcile for a month, but it still didn't work out.", so that you have a good reason to break up with me as well as an excuse to tell your family & friends.

Is this the birthday present you're preparing in advance for her?

I am requesting for a trial period extending til my birthday at the end of August, even if you go to work they would give you a trial of 3 months. I don't think I'm asking for too much.

Last year, I announced on my birthday that 2011 would be the last birthday I would be single on, do you want me to spend my birthday this year alone?

In the end, ZR sent you a text at 3:44PM during the afternoon, calling you a big fat liar.

In just 1 week of my absence in your car, my seat has been adjusted, and the car is filled of different kinds of snacks you don't usually eat, but what shocked me the most was finding a dress in the boot that belonged to neither me, nor your mother, nor your sister!

Is ZR trying to declare war in my territory? Why must she deliberately leave evidence to let me know of her presence?

Your father revealed to me that on 03.05.12, your parents actually went to ZR's office demanding to see both of you.

They questioned the both of you about the couple tables (?) you two have, and also reminded ZR that we are engaged and to be married in 2 months' time, hoping the both of you would keep a distance.

ZR's reply was: "Uncle, Aunty, I already have a very good boyfriend, the watch was given to me by him from Boston as a gift. I cherish our relationship a lot. I know Alvin is getting married, I have also gotten his wedding invitation. We are only good friends.".

< 06.05.2012 >

Today is our proposal anniversary, while I'm silently counting down, I really wanted to remind you... but at the stroke of midnight, I was interrupted by a phone call from ZR.

You panicked in front of me, and quickly tried to shoo her off by telling her you were with your girlfriend, then hung up the phone.

I got very disappointed, but still told you: "My love, happy anniversary. I hope you still remember that we're still in love, that you'll remember why you wanted to marry me in the first place. I love you."

Just before getting off the bus, I held back my tears to tell you: "I am your fiancee, not your girlfriend. Do take care."

< 08.05.2012 >

We agreed on celebrating our anniversary. I suggested going to Mount Fable JewelBox for dinner, but in the end you took me to the Katong Shopping Center nearby my house for Shabu-Shabu.

I knew you weren't being sincere about it, but I'm very content with just being able to celebrate together.

We took some photos which you forbid me from posting to Facebook. You then fetched me home at 10PM.

< 11.05.2012 >

We went to the hotel with your father to delay the wedding until the end of the year: 07.12.2012.

We decided to use your aunt's illness as an excuse, and notified all who were invited.

I felt bad to use your aunt's illness as an excuse, what if we really won't get married, wouldn't all responsibilites fall on her then? Why let your dear aunt carry your responsibilities?

< 12.05.2012 >

Suddenly received a SMS from a friend, telling me she & her boyfriend saw you & ZR having dinner at Mount Fable JewelBox. She didn't want to tell me this initially, because she knew our wedding was just one month away.

I was flabbergasted, wasn't that the place I suggested going for our anniversary celebration that day?

I couldn't take it anymore and asked you at night: "Is there really no third party?" You said: "No." I asked: "Do you really have the intention to save our relationship?" You told me: "Yes, I still want to try... but on one condition - you are not to spend the night at my place anymore." (You have the nerves to tell me this condition, even an idiot can tell this is a condition you & ZR came up with.)

< 13.05.2012 >

We celebrated Mothers' Day for your mother at Momo & Moomoo.

< 17.05.2012 >

My ex-boyfriend Joe asked me out for a cup of coffee, he asked whether there were any problems on our relationship because you sent him an email asking him to introduce the Toyota marketing job to a girl named 'Zonia Raymond'.

You actually asked my ex-boyfriend to help find a job for your new lover's sister?

Joe scolded me for being foolish and not telling anyone about this matter, suffering silently. I cried in front of him. I felt you've made me so ashamed of myself, so full of grief.

To think Joe once blessed me: "I feel very relieved and happy for you for being able to meet such a man who knows how to cherish you!"

He tried to console me, saying that you might just be momentarily infatuated with her. Cheering me on.

< 18.05.2012 >

I disregarded our initial agreed time of 10PM, and waited for you at your house.

You went to have dinner with ZR who has just returned from Thailand. You had a shock when you saw me in your room. I said I wanted to have a drink with you. You flustered and impatiently told me to go home quickly after drinking.

I said I'll be spending the night here since tomorrow morning we'll be going to Pontian (Malaysia) to visit my mother.

All of a sudden, you shouted at me: "Didn't I warn you that you're not to spend the night at my house? I want my privacy, leave immediately or I shall sleep downstairs." (Are you telling your fiancee that she is forbidden to take one step inside the house you once said would bring her fortune & happiness?)

Words cannot possibly describe my emotions at that time, my self-esteem has been completely crushed under your feet. My mind went blank. I bitterly uttered to you, "This is your room, I should be the one to sleep downstairs.".

Feeling extremely lost & helpless, I called up my sister Dobby who was in Vietnam. She got very worried and immediately informed your parents to take care of me.

Just when your father was in the middle of consoling me, you changed your clothes and rushed out of the house.

Your father tried to stop you, but not only did you ignore him, you even scolded him not to intervene in your business!

I chased after you and asked if you hated me. You said no, you only wanted freedom & privacy, you wanted your personal space! (Which is what I'm trying to ask, are you hating me for standing in-between you and ZR?)

I'm tired, both my body & mind are already critically injured.

I also can't bear to tell your father about the incident where I jumped into the sea, as well as all the cruel words you've said to me.

< 19.05.2012 >

I ignored you in the morning, went to the car dealership to sell my car, because I fell apart several times while driving which nearly caused me to have accidents, and this worried my family.

After selling the car and reaching back to your house, I saw an unforgettable scene.

Your mother's eyes were red and swollen, it was apparent that she had been crying all night. I felt heart-broken. While I was consoling her, she told me your father needs to be consoled more than she does. I really couldn't stand watching this happening.

When I went to meet your father, he was in a melancholic mood, writing a letter to his son. He hopes to rekindle the father-son relationship you both once had, and hopes his kind & lovely son would regain consciousness.

< 21.05.2012 >

You dad handed the letter to you, in order to express his dissatisfaction towards your behaviour he has refused to talk to you.

It pains me to know that our marriage is breaking your family bonds apart.

< 26.05.2012 >

You came to my house early in the morning to fetch me to Pontian, and you suddenly changed your mind, telling me that you will tell my mother that the wedding delay is due to problems in our relationship instead of using your aunt as an excuse.

In fact, you are actually quite afraid to face my mother.

Strangely, after entering my house, you changed your mind yet again and used your aunt as an excuse afterall.

But it went well, and my family were quite supportive of the decision to delay the wedding until 07.12.2012.

Although my mother was disappointed, she had no choice but to understand and accept your decision.

All of a sudden, mom broke into tears and said to you:

"I'm old with heart disease, I have no idea how much longer I have left. If I'm not fortunate enough to see both my daughters' marriage, I just want you to remember you once said you would take care of her (Yuki), love her, and give her happiness.".

That night, Dobby sent me a SMS, telling me that mother had long knew about everything.

Just that, the rest of the family told her not to lecture you because we are still in the midst of restoring our feelings. So as to avoid giving us unnecessary pressure and increasing the rift between us.

Mother was constantly calling up my sisters to check on my status, she longed to come to Singapore in order to see me but was stopped by my sisters because they wanted me to concentrate on restoring our love.

Upon hearing this, my heart felt sour. To think my efforts... caused so much grief in the family, especially my elderly mother. I feel very guilty.

< 23.05.2012 (?) >

We stayed home to celebrate your mother's birthday.

< 27.05.2012 >

Your father and I had a chat in his study. He told me he already treats me as his future daughter-in-law.

Sometimes, even if it's his own son who has done wrong, he will not be biased in favor of him. Your grandfather is also the same.

He wishes for us to try our best to maintain our relationship. I feel very touched to know that your father has already wholly accepted me as part of the family. But what about you?

My friend once taught me... In order to check if your husband has been unfaithful, check his number of condoms. Sounds a little "aunty", but I went ahead and counted anyway.

A while ago I counted 12, now there is only 2 left.

< 04.06.2012 >

Early in the morning, some foreign friends called to ask why the marriage event on Facebook got suddenly cancelled. Wasn't it only a delay? Aren't the both of you still in the midst of restoration? Why were there no news of this? Why were the invitation pages deleted?

I've completely overlooked my friends.

Is this the best birthday present for ZR you can come up with through actions?

< 05.06.2012 >

Your father originally wanted to have a talk with ZR again, but the more he thought about it, the angrier he got. He feels she isn't fit to talk to your parents, and it'd feel demeaning.

He said it's okay to let Dobby & Shaun be their representatives.

When I asked if it was okay to confront ZR myself, as the fiancee, they assured me I definitely have every rights to do that, but reminded me not to take any physical actions no matter what in order to avoid any possible lawsuits.

I was sent home around 11PM.They did not know I've actually took several sleeping pills with red wine, my family got shocked once again.

Shaun & Dobby knew I was very saddened by the fact that you're going to celebrate ZR's birthday with her, they angrily decided to go down to ZR's house to tell her parents that she is destroying our marriage.

They only managed to relay the message through the intercom in the hall to ZR's parents, they said they will look into the matter by clarifying with their daughter.

To be continued