Not Excited About Moving To New Place...

[Togg 0]

Don't know why I have this feeling...I am upgrading and should feel happy and have been looking forward till recently when we are just about to move...

Could be due to the stress from the not so good Reno experience / stress from the move / uncertainty in this new change / feelings for existing home (first home after marriage)..

Anyone experience or heard of this? I hope this is temporary just like post-natal blues or pre-marriage stress..

[edenstrauss 3]

Hmm, I would think that it's part & parcel of most home owners to have some form of emotional attachment to their existing home especially when they have stayed in there for a substantial period of time to call it home.

And this is even likely the case if it's your first matrimonial home.

Since the moving out is non-reversible when u have already upgraded into a larger place, then give yourself the heads-up and move on. Think positive & tell yourself that whatever stress that u are going through is temporary.

U mentioned post-natal blues, so I think that you're a new mama. congrats on a new addition to your family! If you could still feel the strain after confinement, I would highly recommend that you consult a TCM physician (that's assuming that nothing abnormal shows up in your medical screening).

best wishes!

[Togg 0]

Hmm, I would think that it's part & parcel of most home owners to have some form of emotional attachment to their existing home especially when they have stayed in there for a substantial period of time to call it home.

And this is even likely the case if it's your first matrimonial home.

Since the moving out is non-reversible when u have already upgraded into a larger place, then give yourself the heads-up and move on. Think positive & tell yourself that whatever stress that u are going through is temporary.

U mentioned post-natal blues, so I think that you're a new mama. congrats on a new addition to your family! If you could still feel the strain after confinement, I would highly recommend that you consult a TCM physician (that's assuming that nothing abnormal shows up in your medical screening).

best wishes!

Hi edenstrauss - thanks for your note. Really appreciate that... will try to think positive and hopefully will get over this not so good feeling soon. You are right, I am a mother but not so new lah... had long past the post natal blues phase, no worries.

[edenstrauss 3]

Hi edenstrauss - thanks for your note. Really appreciate that... will try to think positive and hopefully will get over this not so good feeling soon. You are right, I am a mother but not so new lah... had long past the post natal blues phase, no worries.

U r most welcome!

I've been staying in my current & first matrimonial home for more than a decade & I can definitely understand where u are coming from... My previous neighbours who shifted to punggol were "bleeding" deep down in their hearts becox they missed their earlier flats. But given time, they are adapting well & are telling me how peaceful it was for them - So give yourself some time to get used to the new environment.

It'll be my turn to wear your shoes when I shift one of these days.

[sidharthbora 0]

Don't know why I have this feeling...I am upgrading and should feel happy and have been looking forward till recently when we are just about to move...

Could be due to the stress from the not so good Reno experience / stress from the move / uncertainty in this new change / feelings for existing home (first home after marriage)..

Anyone experience or heard of this? I hope this is temporary just like post-natal blues or pre-marriage stress..

Its the same feeling here maite ! I am also upgrading but the feeling is not coming in or its drowned under stress of school shifting to movers & packers to renovation .. not sure but yes sharing makes me feel light as i see one more bro in the same boat ..

Cheers

Sid