airways07 0 Report post Posted February 11, 2009 Hi everyone, l would like to ask if any of u here had etopic pregnancy before and had to be terminate immediately and what are the result after that? l was told by my gynae 10years ago when l had this operation, l will not be able to conceived anymore-is it true? We been trying but unsuccessful and to make matter worst-yesterday l was told that l had cyst on both ovaries ... what a bad luck, can any kind souls would care to shared it with me? My frenz said once u had cyst and had it removes - CONFIRMATION NO CHANCE OF GETTING BABY cause ther is where it will produce -what shall l do? My operation is 1mth from now ... pls advice Dilemma Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
666 0 Report post Posted February 11, 2009 Hmmm..not too sure about wat is etopic pregnancy.. when my wife was pregnant, in 1st trimester, gynae told us my wife have 2 big cysts..but she say the cysts might burst or grow bigger. She will have to monitor...but never mention about removing the ovaries... Thank god the cyst dissapear during the pregnancy.. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airways07 0 Report post Posted February 13, 2009 Hmmm..not too sure about wat is etopic pregnancy.. when my wife was pregnant, in 1st trimester, gynae told us my wife have 2 big cysts..but she say the cysts might burst or grow bigger. She will have to monitor...but never mention about removing the ovaries... Thank god the cyst dissapear during the pregnancy.. Well, l guess hers is not as complicated as mine but thanks for the reply Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
leen 2 Report post Posted February 16, 2009 Well, l guess hers is not as complicated as mine but thanks for the reply hi, i don't know if you r going to private doc or govt hospital for your checkups and ops. but if u r really that worried, talk to your gynae again and tell him/her abt your wish to have babies and what will the operation mean, eg. removal of cyst only or need to remove ovaries? etc. if you still not sure, get a second opinion from another doc. ppl can share with you their experiences, but you hv to try to get gynae to explain clearly and address all your doubts. there r some cysts that will go away naturally with time, there r some that need only medication, then there r some that really need op and some by using laser only. so you hv to really grille your gynae no matter how piss off he/she will get but they r not suppose to be piss off but to help their patients. if really all else point to the fact that you need to remove the cysts to save your life, then you hv to do it. no matter who try to comfort you, you will feel sad, depressed, stressed.. but look on the bright side, you can opt for adoption although that is a difficult route and decision to make as family must be really supportive of your decision, esp your hb. do not be despair, god always will help open another door if 1 door closes. be strong.. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
