skywolf 0 Report post Posted March 4, 2008 Hihi,Need some FS views on the situation i'm facing now...FSM said tt as my hubby is born in the yr of the horse, so this yr shd avoid reno/move-in/wedding/siam all the gd and bad events, etc. No issues on the rest, only the reno part. And then, next yr (2009) it's my turn, though i had not confirmed if still suitable to move hse because still kind of shell-shocked. Our original intention was to settle the customary in early 2009, so the moving in can be done in 2009 if it's better to avoid.In reality, we could not possibly let the hse be empty for 9 more mths before doing reno. S&C charges, hse installlments are still being paid and deducted respectively...? FSM was saying tt since we have the yuan with him (he is 1 of my kaki's hubby's friend), he sugg we use the 'zhen' method. Initially he told my friend he's not keen on the job as he didnt want to be the bearer of bad news (understandably so).... Had anyone gone thru this and could help with some advise? Will of course talk to FSM again but thot it may be better to seek some views here first. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gui 0 Report post Posted March 4, 2008 Hihi,Need some FS views on the situation i'm facing now...FSM said tt as my hubby is born in the yr of the horse, so this yr shd avoid reno/move-in/wedding/siam all the gd and bad events, etc. No issues on the rest, only the reno part. And then, next yr (2009) it's my turn, though i had not confirmed if still suitable to move hse because still kind of shell-shocked. Our original intention was to settle the customary in early 2009, so the moving in can be done in 2009 if it's better to avoid.In reality, we could not possibly let the hse be empty for 9 more mths before doing reno. S&C charges, hse installlments are still being paid and deducted respectively...? FSM was saying tt since we have the yuan with him (he is 1 of my kaki's hubby's friend), he sugg we use the 'zhen' method. Initially he told my friend he's not keen on the job as he didnt want to be the bearer of bad news (understandably so).... Had anyone gone thru this and could help with some advise? Will of course talk to FSM again but thot it may be better to seek some views here first. Hi,What is 'zhen' method?No need to worry. There are remedies. 1.Yr FSM should check yours & yr hubby's WHOLE BaZi. Dun tell me all ppl born in Horse yr all kenna jialat jialat in Rat yr? That is just GENERAL reading. Also, birth Year affects your parents more than yoursleves. (So it is a matter of the FSM checking both sets of parents' BaZi to see how they will be affected.) Unless, yr birth day also Horse or Tiger/Dog, then that is another matter.2. Date Selection. Yr FSM can still find good dates to mitigate by matching all yr BaZi (yours, yr hubby and your parents'). There are certain dates in the year which you may renovate even if you are born year / day of Horse. Above simply need good skills of yr FSM no need to spend extra money or do any religious or folks rituals - from Fengshui pint of view.cheers! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skywolf 0 Report post Posted March 4, 2008 Hi,What is 'zhen' method?No need to worry. There are remedies. 1.Yr FSM should check yours & yr hubby's WHOLE BaZi. Dun tell me all ppl born in Horse yr all kenna jialat jialat in Rat yr? That is just GENERAL reading. Also, birth Year affects your parents more than yoursleves. (So it is a matter of the FSM checking both sets of parents' BaZi to see how they will be affected.) Unless, yr birth day also Horse or Tiger/Dog, then that is another matter.2. Date Selection. Yr FSM can still find good dates to mitigate by matching all yr BaZi (yours, yr hubby and your parents'). There are certain dates in the year which you may renovate even if you are born year / day of Horse. Above simply need good skills of yr FSM no need to spend extra money or do any religious or folks rituals - from Fengshui pint of view.cheers!Hi Gui,Thanks for your reply.I had given both mine and my hubby's birth dates & times before the FSM told us abt the chong part. So it shd be the full Bazi correct? Not sure on the birth day, though i assume it could be since he already has the whole bazi. Will call him later to clarify.Date selection - only my hubby and myself will be staying at the new hse. Do you mean inlaws/parents bazi are involved in date selection too? It's comforting to hear tt there are dates available for reno, etc. Scared the heck out of me when i heard the no-to-all 2 days back.Agree on yr last para. He is being frank to me already as he was recommended by my good kaki. Scored points when he say he will not "tell me everything is ok, anyhow give us a date PROVIDED we buy a particular FS gadget from him". So i guess he shd be ok. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
samluvbliss 0 Report post Posted March 4, 2008 Hi Gui,Thanks for your reply.I had given both mine and my hubby's birth dates & times before the FSM told us abt the chong part. So it shd be the full Bazi correct? Not sure on the birth day, though i assume it could be since he already has the whole bazi. Will call him later to clarify.Date selection - only my hubby and myself will be staying at the new hse. Do you mean inlaws/parents bazi are involved in date selection too? It's comforting to hear tt there are dates available for reno, etc. Scared the heck out of me when i heard the no-to-all 2 days back.Agree on yr last para. He is being frank to me already as he was recommended by my good kaki. Scored points when he say he will not "tell me everything is ok, anyhow give us a date PROVIDED we buy a particular FS gadget from him". So i guess he shd be ok.I also a horse, getting marry in sept08. Moving to my new flat in aug08, gg to spend a lot of money. Go thru leg operation in Jan08. In job, have to face difficult boss....but think of new hse and wedding, it makes me excited and forget all the worries.... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gui 0 Report post Posted March 4, 2008 (edited) Hi Gui,Thanks for your reply.I had given both mine and my hubby's birth dates & times before the FSM told us abt the chong part. So it shd be the full Bazi correct? Not sure on the birth day, though i assume it could be since he already has the whole bazi. Will call him later to clarify.Date selection - only my hubby and myself will be staying at the new hse. Do you mean inlaws/parents bazi are involved in date selection too? It's comforting to hear tt there are dates available for reno, etc. Scared the heck out of me when i heard the no-to-all 2 days back.Agree on yr last para. He is being frank to me already as he was recommended by my good kaki. Scored points when he say he will not "tell me everything is ok, anyhow give us a date PROVIDED we buy a particular FS gadget from him". So i guess he shd be ok.Hi skywolf,It does not matter whether yr parents r staying in the house or not. Fengshui is a studies on the Law of Universal (Yi). In Yi, we are all connected by time, by space and by blood. There are many scientists, physicist, philosophers, religion etc who explain such connection in different ways but Chinese Metaphysics explain it by Yi Jing, BaZi, Zi Wei, Fengshui, Date Selection, Mian Xiang, etc etc using Yi principles, Hexagrams, and Yin Yang 5 elements derived from planetary movements. That's why seeing your BaZi or reading your hse Fengshui, a good FSM can tell you things about your parents and siblings etc etc.I cannot comment if yr FSM is reading correctly becos I dun hv the data. But I can definitely tell you making you buy Fengshui gadget is not ethical. IF he is relying on 'Fengshui gadget' for sure this FSM know little or nothing about Fengshui...... Very sorry.cheers! Edited March 4, 2008 by Gui Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skywolf 0 Report post Posted March 4, 2008 I also a horse, getting marry in sept08. Moving to my new flat in aug08, gg to spend a lot of money. Go thru leg operation in Jan08. In job, have to face difficult boss....but think of new hse and wedding, it makes me excited and forget all the worries.... I'm very tempted to take things as it comes by. Haha! Hi skywolf,It does not matter whether yr parents r staying in the house or not. Fengshui is a studies on the Law of Universal (Yi). In Yi, we are all connected by time, by space and by blood. There are many scientists, physicist, philosophers, religion etc who explain such connection in different ways but Chinese Metaphysics explain it by Yi Jing, BaZi, Zi Wei, Fengshui, Date Selection, Mian Xiang, etc etc using Yi principles, Hexagrams, and Yin Yang 5 elements derived from planetary movements. That's why seeing your BaZi or reading your hse Fengshui, a good FSM can tell you things about your parents and siblings etc etc.I cannot comment if yr FSM is reading correctly becos I dun hv the data. But I can definitely tell you making you buy Fengshui gadget is not ethical. IF he is relying on 'Fengshui gadget' for sure this FSM know little or nothing about Fengshui...... Very sorry.cheers!Yup, we are aware that those who make you buy things from them are cmi ones. But my fsm didnt take down our parent's bazi lehz... Hmm... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gui 0 Report post Posted March 4, 2008 (edited) Yup, we are aware that those who make you buy things from them are cmi ones. But my fsm didnt take down our parent's bazi lehz... Hmm...Yeah, maybe he is not skillful? IF so, you might as well do without him since you wanna tak things as they come? good luck! :-) Edited March 4, 2008 by Gui Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skywolf 0 Report post Posted March 4, 2008 Yeah, maybe he is not skillful? IF so, you might as well do without him since you wanna tak things as they come? good luck! :-)I dunno. Thing is now since we knew not so gd, perhaps it may be better to do something abt it (practical ones) rather than ignore? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gui 0 Report post Posted March 4, 2008 I dunno. Thing is now since we knew not so gd, perhaps it may be better to do something abt it (practical ones) rather than ignore? a little advice here as it may save u some money: either a FSM knows what to do or doesnt. there is no half-baked job. it is like a medical student cannot practise like a GP and a GP cannot do specialised surgery like a specialist. putting an often ugly looking 'Fengshui gadget' does not get u anywhere near Fengshui-ed..... except with lesser to spend and a moment of peace.good luck! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skywolf 0 Report post Posted March 4, 2008 Hmmm... means either can be black or white, no grey parts? Will note this. Thanks for clarifying, Gui! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MaCe 3 Report post Posted March 5, 2008 Hihi,FSM said tt as my hubby is born in the yr of the horse, so this yr shd avoid reno/move-in/wedding/siam all the gd and bad events, etc. No issues on the rest, only the reno part. And then, next yr (2009) it's my turn, though i had not confirmed if still suitable to move hse because still kind of shell-shocked. Our original intention was to settle the customary in early 2009, so the moving in can be done in 2009 if it's better to avoid.even if it's a direct "chiong" rat baby in rat year. it's better to get married cos 无喜必有祸。 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skywolf 0 Report post Posted March 5, 2008 even if it's a direct "chiong" rat baby in rat year. it's better to get married cos 无喜必有祸。Huh? Paiseh, my cheena is f9 one. Can elaborate mah? So it's a case of diff fsm have different ways then? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MaCe 3 Report post Posted March 5, 2008 Huh? Paiseh, my cheena is f9 one. Can elaborate mah? So it's a case of diff fsm have different ways then? direct translate intono happy occasion means sure have disaster._________________________but if have 1 happy occasion, can block 3 disasters.some fsm just stick to straight roads without knowing how to turn.conclusion is - just pick a good date to get married and heckcare about the nonsense simi horse/rat cannot married/reno this year.Same nonsense as having cats will have asthma - then all angmohs si liao liao(already all dead). Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skywolf 0 Report post Posted March 6, 2008 direct translate intono happy occasion means sure have disaster._________________________but if have 1 happy occasion, can block 3 disasters.some fsm just stick to straight roads without knowing how to turn.conclusion is - just pick a good date to get married and heckcare about the nonsense simi horse/rat cannot married/reno this year.Same nonsense as having cats will have asthma - then all angmohs si liao liao(already all dead).Oh i see... thanks, MaCe. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
