LadyLuck 0 Report post Posted February 24, 2008 actually im quite in the lost.can fetching wife from our New Home? rather then parent home? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
zirhk3355 1 Report post Posted February 25, 2008 Usually not very nice lor, cuz you are married FROM your maternal home (ie the home you are borned into) mah.I have only seen people holding the groom side's tea ceremony at the new home, but everything related to bride side must be done at her maternal home... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LadyLuck 0 Report post Posted February 25, 2008 i see. i tot fetch me from new home and tea ceremony at my mum place.cuz my mum place very cramp... in tat case no choice. thanks ya Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cheekybee 0 Report post Posted February 26, 2008 Hi,Usually the bride gets married off in her maternal home (the home she grew up in). Even if both of you have already moved to the new home, she can return to her maternal home the day before your wedding so that you can fetch her from there.Hehe..think this is what most people would do lor...it is also possible to get married off in a hotel room if it is not convenient to CHU JIA from the maternal home... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
korea 0 Report post Posted February 28, 2008 actually im quite in the lost.can fetching wife from our New Home? rather then parent home?my hb fetched me early in the morning (about 7am) from my mum's house then we had tea ceremony at my mum's house first. after that, my hb brought me back to his dad's house for tea ceremony then back to my mum's house again (after 12pm to symbolize it was after 3 days for the bride to go back to her parents' house). nowadays, seldom people really wait for exactly 3 days later to go back to the bride's parents' house liao. everything has been short-cut liao. but in between the fetching journey, we also went to our new house so that there was "ren qi" lor. when we went back to my mum's house and his dad's house we must pray the ancestors lor. very important ok. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LadyLuck 0 Report post Posted March 2, 2008 Hi,Usually the bride gets married off in her maternal home (the home she grew up in). Even if both of you have already moved to the new home, she can return to her maternal home the day before your wedding so that you can fetch her from there.Hehe..think this is what most people would do lor...it is also possible to get married off in a hotel room if it is not convenient to CHU JIA from the maternal home...I oso think of hotel for another option. hehee.. but tat the case my family have to go hotel ah?my hb fetched me early in the morning (about 7am) from my mum's house then we had tea ceremony at my mum's house first. after that, my hb brought me back to his dad's house for tea ceremony then back to my mum's house again (after 12pm to symbolize it was after 3 days for the bride to go back to her parents' house). nowadays, seldom people really wait for exactly 3 days later to go back to the bride's parents' house liao. everything has been short-cut liao. but in between the fetching journey, we also went to our new house so that there was "ren qi" lor. when we went back to my mum's house and his dad's house we must pray the ancestors lor. very important ok. for me if really have to fetch from mum place, this my plan lor8am from new home to my mum place, make up & gown up 9am hb fetch me.930am outdoor shooting1030am go new house and change tea ceremony gown1130am take off to mum place for tea ceremony1pm go new home (BREAKTIME) before go hotel. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
korea 0 Report post Posted March 2, 2008 I oso think of hotel for another option. hehee.. but tat the case my family have to go hotel ah?you are going to have wedding banquet at the hotel and of course your family, relatives etc will be going too, right? for me if really have to fetch from mum place, this my plan lor8am from new home to my mum place, make up & gown up 9am hb fetch me.930am outdoor shooting1030am go new house and change tea ceremony gown1130am take off to mum place for tea ceremony1pm go new home (BREAKTIME) before go hotel.did you look for master to select an auspicious time to fetch the bride? we did lor. so far, your planning is ok mah. i also went to new house to change tea dress. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LadyLuck 0 Report post Posted March 2, 2008 you are going to have wedding banquet at the hotel and of course your family, relatives etc will be going too, right? did you look for master to select an auspicious time to fetch the bride? we did lor. so far, your planning is ok mah. i also went to new house to change tea dress. i mean if fetching wife from hotel, my family have to go hotel early in the morning la.i din ask master la....dun wan to tink so much...korea ah.GOSH.. some one tear down my decoration at my main GATE . siao lan Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
korea 0 Report post Posted March 2, 2008 i mean if fetching wife from hotel, my family have to go hotel early in the morning la.i din ask master la....dun wan to tink so much...korea ah.GOSH.. some one tear down my decoration at my main GATE . siao lani see. then its best to fetch the bride from your mum's house lor. its very impt for us to get master to select auspicious date for GDL, date and time for "an chuang", date for AD, time to fetch bride etc. anyway, it depends individual lor. aiyo, who is so naughty to do that to your deco?! our main door deco has been hanging since cny and still there. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cheekybee 0 Report post Posted March 4, 2008 hi ladyluck...i am a bit confused....hee...are you the bride? if you choose to be married from a hotel...most probably your family will stay with you the night before the wedding...so that early next morning everyone will be there when the groom comes to pick you...no need to rush... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
frostyflake 0 Report post Posted March 5, 2008 My FSM told me actually there is no taboo to 'chu jia' from new house or hotel. But traditionally, we should marry off from our maternal home, go to groom's house for tea ceremony, and then come back to bride's maternal home for 2nd round of tea ceremony. The trip should only be between the bride's maternal home and groom's house as it signifies 'shuang shuang dui dui' and 'yuan yuan man man', we should not make another trip to the new house in between as it becomes a triangle which is not very good. So i guess if marrying off from other places other than the maternal home, just make sure you have your tea ceremony at the same place. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LadyLuck 0 Report post Posted March 5, 2008 oic.. i only have two destinate lor1.fetch from mum place/hotel2. to new house Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
