Fifi 0 Report post Posted January 8, 2008 think twice first before you let people know else may be chong kong in future chong kong wat? nothing to chong kong leh Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TPY 0 Report post Posted January 8, 2008 chong kong wat? nothing to chong kong leh The return PingLi lah. Why must let everybody know you have so much money in pocket? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
raincole 0 Report post Posted January 8, 2008 The roast pig is done on AD, the pig trotters on GDL.The roast pig follows the bride home ma Roast pig sybomlise virgin, so must be after then know ma.Now simplify to return on actual day to bride home instead of 3 days. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Fifi 0 Report post Posted January 8, 2008 The return PingLi lah. Why must let everybody know you have so much money in pocket?not my pocket wor anyway, past tense already... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TPY 0 Report post Posted January 8, 2008 not my pocket wor anyway, past tense already... Your hubby's pocket also your pocket right? but yours is yours right? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Fifi 0 Report post Posted January 8, 2008 Your hubby's pocket also your pocket right? but yours is yours right? nono... dat $$ is not in my hubby's pocket... returned to MIL liaozbut i agree with wat u said Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chunky Monkey 2 Report post Posted January 8, 2008 Chunky..From what I've known about your mum. I'll be surprised if the 2xbottles she didn't press for Cordon Bleu LOL. I actually can't remember what they were! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cherlyn 0 Report post Posted January 9, 2008 LOL. I actually can't remember what they were!wah u al so lucky..if oni my mum is as understanding as all of your mums, mil out there jiu hao....my mum 'tortured' us! haiz now wedding big and red and happy occasion becomes sad and fan and problematic issue for us ley...she asked for $8888 of which includes nothg. she dun wana buy anythg for us, this is not even inclusive of the tables wor.. then i asked her sae, must return abit like lucki lucki to my hb mah. she sae fine, she return $1... basket!then my hb and her tok... 8888 to 6888 now final price is 5888. she sae she dun wana return a single cent to my hb ley.this the dowry nia...we still need do buffet on GDL and AD. gt ppl do buffet on GDL de meh?? i first time hear wor..then cakes, 2 hard bottles of liquor, oranges, roast meat 10KG and roast pig leg.. she sae all APs she will take.. she sae shes not going to return my hb a single cent.now, we very fan, cus all the above mentioned are going to be forked out by us soley. So, we duno wan customary mah?Dun wan save $, wan, $$ problem..This is not the end, she scolded and suan us when we discuss such issues with her. Mad rite?Haiz, trust me, she made lotsa nasty remarks to us!Aiya, now v fan lor.. ppl wedding is kai kai xin xin de, but not for us... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
katvolution 0 Report post Posted January 9, 2008 wah u al so lucky..if oni my mum is as understanding as all of your mums, mil out there jiu hao....my mum 'tortured' us! haiz now wedding big and red and happy occasion becomes sad and fan and problematic issue for us ley...she asked for $8888 of which includes nothg. she dun wana buy anythg for us, this is not even inclusive of the tables wor.. then i asked her sae, must return abit like lucki lucki to my hb mah. she sae fine, she return $1... basket!then my hb and her tok... 8888 to 6888 now final price is 5888. she sae she dun wana return a single cent to my hb ley.this the dowry nia...we still need do buffet on GDL and AD. gt ppl do buffet on GDL de meh?? i first time hear wor..then cakes, 2 hard bottles of liquor, oranges, roast meat 10KG and roast pig leg.. she sae all APs she will take.. she sae shes not going to return my hb a single cent.now, we very fan, cus all the above mentioned are going to be forked out by us soley. So, we duno wan customary mah?Dun wan save $, wan, $$ problem..This is not the end, she scolded and suan us when we discuss such issues with her. Mad rite?Haiz, trust me, she made lotsa nasty remarks to us!Aiya, now v fan lor.. ppl wedding is kai kai xin xin de, but not for us... Hi cherlyn, really sorry to hear about your story..Does your mum knows that you and your hubby are the ones forking out the $$? Maybe she will understand if she knows you and your hubby is paying instead of your in-laws..Hope to hear your good news soon.. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TPY 0 Report post Posted January 9, 2008 (edited) wah u al so lucky..if oni my mum is as understanding as all of your mums, mil out there jiu hao....my mum 'tortured' us! haiz now wedding big and red and happy occasion becomes sad and fan and problematic issue for us ley...she asked for $8888 of which includes nothg. she dun wana buy anythg for us, this is not even inclusive of the tables wor.. then i asked her sae, must return abit like lucki lucki to my hb mah. she sae fine, she return $1... basket!then my hb and her tok... 8888 to 6888 now final price is 5888. she sae she dun wana return a single cent to my hb ley.this the dowry nia...we still need do buffet on GDL and AD. gt ppl do buffet on GDL de meh?? i first time hear wor..then cakes, 2 hard bottles of liquor, oranges, roast meat 10KG and roast pig leg.. she sae all APs she will take.. she sae shes not going to return my hb a single cent.now, we very fan, cus all the above mentioned are going to be forked out by us soley. So, we duno wan customary mah?Dun wan save $, wan, $$ problem..This is not the end, she scolded and suan us when we discuss such issues with her. Mad rite?Haiz, trust me, she made lotsa nasty remarks to us!Aiya, now v fan lor.. ppl wedding is kai kai xin xin de, but not for us... Easy to solved lah, she ask for 嫁庄 $8888 then you may ask your father to request $8887 for 聘礼 wah. Plus 50 Tables for dinner有来有往， 好预头 Edited January 9, 2008 by TPY Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
raincole 0 Report post Posted January 9, 2008 (edited) but consider the amt she spend in raising you up is definitely more than what she is asking now.If can afford, give her lor. Money can be earned back. Edited January 9, 2008 by raincole Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cherlyn 0 Report post Posted January 10, 2008 but consider the amt she spend in raising you up is definitely more than what she is asking now.If can afford, give her lor. Money can be earned back.aiyo not sell daughter leyfurther we not close. its my dad who really give me the $$ de and yi, i stopped to receive $ from them when i was 16. instead, im the one who gave her liao.after all these years, shes not a gd mum as well. me sick, me no job, me whateva she dun care dewhen i no $ to eat still gta gv her monthly allowance lorshe said:- u steal sell rob cheat i also dun mind, must gv me the $!so u tik if me, now gv her dowry $8888 i wan??Easy to solved lah, she ask for 嫁庄 $8888 then you may ask your father to request $8887 for 聘礼 wah. Plus 50 Tables for dinner有来有往， 好预头i dun get u? Hi cherlyn, really sorry to hear about your story..Does your mum knows that you and your hubby are the ones forking out the $$? Maybe she will understand if she knows you and your hubby is paying instead of your in-laws..Hope to hear your good news soon.. she knows. she suan my hb sae u wana mari my daughter, no $ ar?? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
raincole 0 Report post Posted January 11, 2008 Sound like cinderalla.but eventually must come to an agreement, else when the act. day comes it will be unpleasant lor. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TPY 0 Report post Posted January 11, 2008 Sound like cinderalla.but eventually must come to an agreement, else when the act. day comes it will be unpleasant lor. Cinderalla must leave at 12 mid night. So the same goes for her, she need to bid farewell and start another journey, new life chapter of her own. Be it $8888 or $8. So just be contented with the dowary else may not even get a single $8 if things goes stray. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cherlyn 0 Report post Posted January 11, 2008 Cinderalla must leave at 12 mid night. So the same goes for her, she need to bid farewell and start another journey, new life chapter of her own. Be it $8888 or $8. So just be contented with the dowary else may not even get a single $8 if things goes stray.now we deciding to go tru the cuatomary anot lorcus my hb v upsetshe oni wan $ and nothg else Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
