Air 0 Report post Posted September 12, 2008 No need to peiseh, 1970 Again, I like your honest answer Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TPY 0 Report post Posted September 12, 2008 this i agree.. is also how we take it lah.. some cases can take it lightly.. some cannot... eh the sg brides link i show you, you see liao mah?? my senior told everyone.. if cannot convince.. con.. else just confuse everyone.. and trust is all we are talking about Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Air 0 Report post Posted September 12, 2008 this i agree.. is also how we take it lah.. some cases can take it lightly.. some cannot... eh the sg brides link i show you, you see liao mah?? my senior told everyone.. if cannot convince.. con.. else just confuse everyone.. haven't seen ar...yest went home pretty late after gym....v tired...so nvr log on.... although i didn't see...still can discuss one.... she sets so many rules for her hubby, he can tahan?!?! Man's dignity is v impt one leh...in the end, might drive him away....why the need for rules?!? why make life so rigid?!?! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Fifi 0 Report post Posted September 12, 2008 wah... TPY is da ge!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Air 0 Report post Posted September 12, 2008 wah... TPY is da ge!! ooooo..........LAO DA! ! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TPY 0 Report post Posted September 12, 2008 seventies baby is how old??? Sorry for you becoz I didn't give you an open question.. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Fifi 0 Report post Posted September 12, 2008 alamak... i typed halfway then click on the wrong button Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
xinyi_reiko 0 Report post Posted September 12, 2008 haven't seen ar...yest went home pretty late after gym....v tired...so nvr log on.... although i didn't see...still can discuss one.... she sets so many rules for her hubby, he can tahan?!?! Man's dignity is v impt one leh...in the end, might drive him away....why the need for rules?!? why make life so rigid?!?! i cut and paste the rules here.. i just find it amazing.. even is me i also cannot tahan.. this woman's hubby is a pilot.. That's y, like i said in my other thread, we have to take pre-emptive measures, instead of trusting blindly, much to the disagreement of some other forummers. I've set some boundaries for him. 1) No clubbing/drinking with cabin crew 2) No dining out with cabin crew (dine alone if you have to) 3) Not allowed to step into hotel room of opposite sex, vice versa 4) No sight seeing with cabin crew (sightsee alone if you have to) 5) Give me a copy of your flight schedule 6) Use alternate handphones 7) Never turn off your handphone once you touch down - must stay contactable 8) Must answer my phone call at all times when not flying 9) No conversing with cabin crew unless neccessary to carry out on-the-job duty 10) Bring along your laptop & turn on your webcam in the hotel room 11) Inform me of your hotel and room number once you check in He has agreed that the above boundaries are reasonable and not difficult to adhere to. I've got other plans drawn out as well but dont think proper to be disclosed to anyone. In short, i recognise the risk involved let's just say, i'm taking a calculated risk here in letting him pursue his pilot aspiration, not because i'm self-sacrificing because that's the last thing i am, but because of my own well-being too. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Fifi 0 Report post Posted September 12, 2008 i realised that i either have trust in my hubby but no trust in the ladies around him Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TPY 0 Report post Posted September 12, 2008 ooooo..........LAO DA! ! Sometime I hope to be a little woman. Shoulder is heavy being a man.. especialy Lao Da... Fight agains every thing anywhere, any place for the sake of loves ones in home,office, society. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
xinyi_reiko 0 Report post Posted September 12, 2008 wah... TPY is da ge!! ya man.. lao da.. hope that our xiao mei mei's conversations wont be bored to you... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Air 0 Report post Posted September 12, 2008 i cut and paste the rules here.. i just find it amazing.. even is me i also cannot tahan.. this woman's hubby is a pilot.. That's y, like i said in my other thread, we have to take pre-emptive measures, instead of trusting blindly, much to the disagreement of some other forummers. I've set some boundaries for him. 1) No clubbing/drinking with cabin crew 2) No dining out with cabin crew (dine alone if you have to) 3) Not allowed to step into hotel room of opposite sex, vice versa 4) No sight seeing with cabin crew (sightsee alone if you have to) 5) Give me a copy of your flight schedule 6) Use alternate handphones 7) Never turn off your handphone once you touch down - must stay contactable 8) Must answer my phone call at all times when not flying 9) No conversing with cabin crew unless neccessary to carry out on-the-job duty 10) Bring along your laptop & turn on your webcam in the hotel room 11) Inform me of your hotel and room number once you check in He has agreed that the above boundaries are reasonable and not difficult to adhere to. I've got other plans drawn out as well but dont think proper to be disclosed to anyone. In short, i recognise the risk involved let's just say, i'm taking a calculated risk here in letting him pursue his pilot aspiration, not because i'm self-sacrificing because that's the last thing i am, but because of my own well-being too. Like that also can ar?!? Might as well chain him to the bed then...no diff leh If i'm the guy, i think i will leave her man....siao...sign marriage contract ma chiam sign death sentence....worse than going to jail....even prison officers don't require prisoners not to talk to each other....siao.... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Fifi 0 Report post Posted September 12, 2008 i find some of the rules are abit too far fetched but then again, she has her concerns... too many tales from the cabin crew... prob dat adds to her worries Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
xinyi_reiko 0 Report post Posted September 12, 2008 Sometime I hope to be a little woman. Shoulder is heavy being a man.. especialy Lao Da... Fight agains every thing anywhere, any place for the sake of loves ones in home,office, society. i also wish lor.. but very difficult leh.. i am more like 'the man' in the r/s Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Air 0 Report post Posted September 12, 2008 i find some of the rules are abit too far fetched but then again, she has her concerns... too many tales from the cabin crew... prob dat adds to her worries I do have the same thinking initially too....that said, with this kind of rules, how to work?!?! If she doesn't trust him, why marry him?!? She should have married a non-pilot what....why bother?!?! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
