happybride 0 Report post Posted December 27, 2007 i know there are similar threats out there.. but i've read through and found the different advices confusing. Hubby and i had already ROM. Our house is undergoing reno now and will be completing in late Jan. OUr customary wedding will be in late Feb. What i dun understand is, do we perform Move in Rituals first? Or An Chuan First? Or do we move in first then An Chuan when it's near our AD? Also our AD falls on the 14th day of CNY period. Our Auspicious date happen to fall on 1st and 2nd day of CNY. Will it be inauspicious if we were to An Chuan/Move in on that date? will crash with CNY a not? Hope to seek some advices here.. thanks Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MaCe 3 Report post Posted December 27, 2007 i know there are similar threats out there.. but i've read through and found the different advices confusing. Hubby and i had already ROM. Our house is undergoing reno now and will be completing in late Jan. OUr customary wedding will be in late Feb. What i dun understand is, do we perform Move in Rituals first? Or An Chuan First? Or do we move in first then An Chuan when it's near our AD? Also our AD falls on the 14th day of CNY period. Our Auspicious date happen to fall on 1st and 2nd day of CNY. Will it be inauspicious if we were to An Chuan/Move in on that date? will crash with CNY a not? Hope to seek some advices here.. thanksROM is considered MARRIED, irregardless of when is the AD.an chuan date should place as close as possible to the day BOTH of you sleep on that new bed(new house). Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happybride 0 Report post Posted December 27, 2007 Coz my PIL only mentioned when we have our customary then we are considered Married according to chinese custom. If it's as what you said, Can Move in and An Chuan same date not? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MaCe 3 Report post Posted December 27, 2007 Coz my PIL only mentioned when we have our customary then we are considered Married according to chinese custom. If it's as what you said, Can Move in and An Chuan same date not?unless b4 AD, both of you still sleep in each others' house(parent's house).can put on same date. but most would choose a date closer to moving in date cos moving in the day itself is already very hectic. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
