c00kiemonster 0 Report post Posted November 20, 2007 Hi Mr Chong, need your advise urgently. We have already asked a master to chose a wedding date for us based on our Bazi and our parents Sheng Xiao. The date chosen is 4 Oct 2008, Sat. (eng calendar date)However recently my sis visted another master who happen to comment that the above date is generally no good for marriage as he quote from the tong shu " 3 nian liang zai, yi bei shang" which implys if we were to get marry on this date, our marriage will be shortlive. I have further consult with my master who mention that above pointers do not matter as he have chosen it base on our bazi.. and that above is only a very general comment. So now we are confused and we like a 3rd opinion. Can you kindly advise us. We are at a lost now as we have already confirm our venue and stuff etc. many thanks in advance. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mr Chong 0 Report post Posted November 26, 2007 Hi Mr Chong, need your advise urgently. We have already asked a master to chose a wedding date for us based on our Bazi and our parents Sheng Xiao. The date chosen is 4 Oct 2008, Sat. (eng calendar date)However recently my sis visted another master who happen to comment that the above date is generally no good for marriage as he quote from the tong shu " 3 nian liang zai, yi bei shang" which implys if we were to get marry on this date, our marriage will be shortlive. I have further consult with my master who mention that above pointers do not matter as he have chosen it base on our bazi.. and that above is only a very general comment. So now we are confused and we like a 3rd opinion. Can you kindly advise us. We are at a lost now as we have already confirm our venue and stuff etc. many thanks in advance.HelloOk, I'll try to check for you tonight or by tomorrow. Pls reply an acknowledgement before I proceed and also give the DOB of both of you. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
c00kiemonster 0 Report post Posted November 26, 2007 HelloOk, I'll try to check for you tonight or by tomorrow. Pls reply an acknowledgement before I proceed and also give the DOB of both of you.thanks mr chong..tried to pm u our dates but ur mailbox full...anyother way i can send to u privately? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mr Chong 0 Report post Posted November 27, 2007 thanks mr chong..tried to pm u our dates but ur mailbox full...anyother way i can send to u privately?HelloI've already cleared some of the PMs. Pls send me by today otherwise the box will be full again. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
c00kiemonster 0 Report post Posted November 28, 2007 thanks mr chong, hav pm our details to u Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mr Chong 0 Report post Posted November 30, 2007 Hi Mr Chong, need your advise urgently. We have already asked a master to chose a wedding date for us based on our Bazi and our parents Sheng Xiao. The date chosen is 4 Oct 2008, Sat. (eng calendar date)However recently my sis visted another master who happen to comment that the above date is generally no good for marriage as he quote from the tong shu " 3 nian liang zai, yi bei shang" which implys if we were to get marry on this date, our marriage will be shortlive. I have further consult with my master who mention that above pointers do not matter as he have chosen it base on our bazi.. and that above is only a very general comment. So now we are confused and we like a 3rd opinion. Can you kindly advise us. We are at a lost now as we have already confirm our venue and stuff etc. many thanks in advance.HelloThe first one who said that tong shu is general comment is correct. The tong shu is used for reference and for some other details.4 Oct 08 is itself generally alright but nothing fantastic when applied to both of you. Also not that good for the lady. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
c00kiemonster 0 Report post Posted January 8, 2008 hello mr chong, have pm u for further advise. Thanks Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bernis 0 Report post Posted April 28, 2023 I understand that you are looking for advice on wedding dates. I suggest you take a look at the website https://www.nishiv.com/perfect-date/ . It has a lot of helpful information on choosing the perfect date for your wedding. It includes tips on how to pick the right date, what to consider when selecting a date, and more. I hope this helps you in making your decision. Good luck! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites