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Hey, it's a good thing that he still wanna get touchy with you leh.. Alot of couples married for a long time liao, don't enjoy intimacy anymore.. It shows that he is still very attracted to you.. Tell you guys a story.. Last Sat night, after our date, I met up with 2 of my ex-colleagues.. 1 of them is married.. Let's call her A... She is married for about 1 year liao.. Like me, she married her hb after a short r/s of about 2 months.. Then A told us her problem.. She was practically 'raped' every night.. Her hb will forced to to do it even though she is not in the mood or when she is sick.. And when she refused, he will get angry and just forces his way through the deed.. Very poor thing.. Then after that, he will just wash up and leave her alone.. Now, she shudders whenever her hb touches her..

Aiyo.. You seem to run into problem with almost everything.. I think your hubby is more headache than you.. Coz it's him father.. He also felt difficult I guess.. Really ar? My boy can be very noisy if he wants to.. And he often say loads of lame jokes.. So, I need not joke with him, coz I will end up being the butt of his jokes at times.. Then what you guys do on the weekends?

Hmm.. Maybe you should take the initiative to date him out instead? Plan the programs on your side.. I mean, sometimes, you can be the 'guy' too.. For us, we can really talk non stop.. Guess it's due to my talkative nature.. My boy is quite 'noisy' by nature too.. Wah lao.. Coz I complain to him and said that I feel he don't love me anymore.. He only send me flowers and give me gifts on anniversaries.. Never really do anything more meaningful.. Abit sad lar.. So I told him how I felt.. That's when he told me that he don't know I am feeling that way.. Guys ar, got to open mouth and ask for it before they know what we are thinking.. Can try to do things like flirt over sms, flirt in msn, send erotic messages.. It really spice up life.. Maybe I will become like you guys after some time.. Coz we consider newly-wed.. I mean, pa tor also not very long.. Your wedding next month right? By right, should have send out the invitations already right? But if you are not chin chye, then all the more you should get involved right? Better settle it before you need to make it an urgent affair ...

Nevermind lar.. Read more, learn more about how guys think.. It can be a good thing if you think it the right way.. Of course, I get paranoid at times, but it's for the better for our r/s.. Even thou a r/s can change no matter how good you are, but at least you are answerable to yourself.. Correct? My mum is not like that.. She automatically write down her list.. My MIL even more cute, force us to sit down with her to plan sitting arrangement.. Guess both our parents are very understanding in this matter.. We only facr problems in the 'guo da li' issue... haiz.. sounds pretty hard leh.. guess you got to play by the ear liao..

Cannot ar.. Like that no good.. You know ar, we both knew the importance of keeping a marriage alive.. Other than communication, surprises are important too.. Last Friday, he 'ask' me out for a date.. Very nice feeling.. He gave me flowers.. Was super sweet the entire day..Really a great feeling.. For a moment, I forgot we were married.. As thou we are still a dating couple.. Maybe I had seen too many of my couple friends falling apart after marriage.. Will make a mental note to be extra caring towards him.. On Sunday, I cook him a nice dinner too.. Not forgetting a sensual massage after that..

Ranted in SBF? How to rant in SBF? I thought they only talk about s** in there? Wah.. Sounds very ma fan.. I guess you can't really do anything but ask your hubby to talk things out with your FIL... What about your MIL? Maybe you can try talking to her?

No choice lar.. Gonna learn to care for others if you want others to care for you.. I always believe in giving ppl the best and they will be the same to you too... If you are nasty to others, how do you expect them to be nice to you too? I try my best to do whatever I can for my boy.. Not that I am actually asking for any returns, but just hope that he will see my efforts and love me the same always.. Read SBF and realized that men started changing when their wives are not paying enough attention to them... I don't want that to happen to me.. I also understand that, if their wives are the perfect partners, they will tend to think twice and refrain from doing the wrong things.. But even if anything bad happens in future, at least I had done my best for the r/s and I will have no regrets.. I always tell that to my boy..

No leh.. He always have flu and cough attack.. He has been like that for years liao... Nothing to do with marriage.. In fact, now better than last time.. Coz I control his diet and habits..

Don't know leh.. He had a bad flu and cough.. Sneeze whole night and morning.. I can't even sleep well... He now going home to rest...

Yoz morning!!! I just came in today.. My boy is sick again.. Just accompanied him to the doctor..

She already went off liao lar.. No point nagging at her now.. I sayang you k? How come feel crappy on a Friday?

Sometimes, my bro will ask my mum for permission to keep pets.. He loves dogs.. But my mum will always tell him.. Why make yourself so miserable? When the pet is around, you gonna take care of it, feed it and pamper it.. Then when it's gone, you will cry like siao.. For what? Somehow, her words does make sense to me.. But I guess, the fun in keeping a pet is the caring for them part.. Otherwise, it will be the same as a tamagochi..

Pets are like family to many.. When my boy gave his corgi away last year, he was crying like anything.. 1st time I seen him crying like a baby.. Crying out loud.. Not hiding any tears or emotions at all.. Even I only know his corgi for like less than 2 months, I also can feel the pain when I see it going away with its new owner...

Fifi really has got a good life with so many people caring for it..

*faint* I am very tired.. Yawning non stop leh.. But gald I got nothing much to do today.. Hopefully, it stays this way...

Wah lao.. Early morning, you start crapping already?

Morning guys and girls!!! It's Friday!!!!!

From s.h.i.t to paper bra...

Wah.. Seems like almost everyone is reading SBF.. Got meh? Which part of it is immature? I thought most ppl who post are mature guys? Who is that? Which part of the forum is that? How come I never come across her?

But if you don't know, how to be sad or punish him? If he really makan until so well, you don't know, you also can't help... But once I know, he will be dead meat.. He also knows that.. Somemore, we together almost 24/7.. other than working hours, he won't have time to fool around.. Not hiong.. Must make myself clear.. Prevention is better than cure!! You same as me leh.. I surf SBF at home.. Then my boy tought I am surfing some po**o websites.. Then say I bian tai... Then I pull him to see, he super not interested..

Ya ya.. My boy also don't know about SBF.. But maybe he pretend one leh? Argghh.. I am imagining things again.. Ya man.. The 1st 2 weeks I am with my boy, we went to a pub at boat quay.. There was this waitress that practically throw herself at him.. I was fuming inside, but showed no reaction on the outside.. Just together mah.. Must act like a shu nu... Your one more power.. On wedding night somemore..

I don't haf lar.. Really lar... Ok, seems to me all gers will think crazy whenever they read SBF.. Ya lor.. Cannot regret at all.. Wah lao.. You so nice ar? I told my boy, let me know, I will surely cut off his member.. If I cannot have him all by myself, I also won't let other gers haf him..

Wah.. Got ppl dare to flirt with ur hubby in front of you?? Those gers don't wanna live liao ar?? But I do agree that r/s nowadays are not as stable as compared to our granny grandad days.. I just changed last year.. Gonna change again.. But I am thinking of using starhub back instead of M1... I never give him my hp.. It's on my namecard mah.. Can't help it one...

Wah.. Don't want hack walls for yourself, but hack a small opening for your doggie?

Wah lao.. I alr say ex-suitors liao.. Not now anymore.. Married liao, become auntie.. no more nice clothes, no more clubbing or pubbing.. Everyday stay home with my boy boy.. Where come the suitors? You also will be paranoid ar? and I thought I am the only one..*phew* But it's really scary to know that there are so many of those men around.. And I read a thread about guys leaving their s***ms around.. On the mugs, shoes and food of their colleagues.. Gross..