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wah... oh dear me ... better stay far far away from OG ...

phew ..............after spending more than 2 hrs reading both your blog n renoblog ... i just only managed to finish renoblog .. like apple jie .. gave up on your blog ... too many things le~ 1st Congrats to you !! !! !! Love your new house layout .... 2ndly Wishing you all the best and have smooth smooth ride thru the whole reno process .... 3rd Hoping to see more pics !! !! Can see the actual process n transformation.. must say that old flooring is very arty faarrty wor .. good to say bye forever n forget ... Welcome the new tiles !! !! :wub: there is always next time to redo your house if time n money allows ... Huat ar for Toto n 4D !! !! lastly I must pat on your shoulders wor .. you deserve it .. as you've dealing with everything very well ... to Girl Power !! !! it's not easy to do the whole reno planning n oversee yourself .. coz been thru it myself ...

aiyo .. of coz me goin !! !! everyone waited for me and plan the gathering based on my off day wor .. you wan me to be kena :fire: i was talking to bluberi that I like ger talks thus telling her to have fun with her gf.

oh, send my regards to tiger man, " jia you... jia you........" Well, to able to celebrate or not , it is not Impt ... as long as the Date is remembered and more loving to each other ... Love one another ... May Happiness Always Be With You !!! :D Hope you ladies have lots of fun .. I always like ger talks .. :wub: making me super regret that I din get ho bee !! !! he is actually my FIL's good pal.

Guess it will be brunch cum pot luck wor .. what do you guys think ? me flying off le .. sudden change to my roster .. will be back this sat .. and then off to Malacca .... Pls wish me lots of lucks .. I'll be helping my cuz-in-law with the maps and GPS ...

oops .. i think me lost all memory of local holidays ... paisei ... think greycat bring them to east side , but not sure where ... Paisei me blur liao ... oh same goes to my MIL wor .. Today's their 30th wedding anniversary. FIL too busy with work , she bored at home thus went out with her friend instead, both BIL n SIL went out as well. how can .. you very bad .. oh Ran n me celebrated Valentine's Day this yr at Paris .. more lomantic .... he followed me on flt .. coz of free tix .. :wub: huh?? no tree ? nvm , i just "borrow" from compassvale or get the live tree from ikea and return after the party .. heehee

heeheee 26th BOXING DAY, everyone don't have to work too .. btw 27 Dec SAT, Greycat might need to bring her gerger n boiboi for swimming lessons wor ..

Yo Yo, Everyone looking for me ? Current schedule for Dec => 06-08 Dec Perth 9-15 Dec On Leaves 16-18 Dec Sydney 19 Dec OFF 20 Dec BKK 21-25 Dec Paris Merry Xmas !!! 26 Dec OFF 27 Dec OFF 28 -30 Dec Narita 31 Dec OFF. Paisei, everyone waiting for me to arrange the party.

oh i have shih tsu too and as well as a taiweness mini yorkie terrier HEY Ran is keen to check out your chairs ..

thanks ladies for cheering me up ... think i was just blah blah too much ... woke up yesterday morning .. having a new fresh start for me .. i'm totally reborn again ...

thanks apple jie ... trying my best ... it is just a another phase of life to show that i actually did grow up ... having setbacks or not ... i know that i will be in deep **** if i would to touch any alcoholic drink.. i had my craziness before when I was much younger ... Now i can't .. still have to be wide awake ... need to think for everyone who cares n loves me ... I'm the only one left .. my mum always reminds me everyday .... every phone call etc .... my whole life is being on a roller coaster ... high up n low down n bottom below ... just that currently i have seen myself hang on tightly.. while facedown to the bottom ........... can't see elsewhere ... just straight down ... me getting narrow-minded .... doing my best to think out of the box... whenever i'm up there in the sky, always feel in peace to be near the clouds ... as i know , he is there .. smiling or grinning back to me

well, it is very amazing to see one to change overnite ... almost instantly .. i think i had been way too carefree of the way i dealing with life and relationships ... took certain issues for granted ... and when things DO happen the most unexpected way ... NEver expect others to behave the way you want ... I done it .. expected hubby to be right there for me at the most critical time of my life ... sadly he missed the boat .. and i left to face everything alone ... it was only much later .. when I ignored him ... flared at him ... then he realised his grave mistake ... and changed for a BETTER MAN overnite ... whatever had happened to me, he felt the pain too. Now our marriage is growing STRONGER each day ... I LOVE HIM MORE THAN EVER ... :wub: Regards, to income ... I still have my job .. just that due to the nature of my jobscope ... I dun have much allowances while having MC .. just having basic ... have to touch onto the savings which i put aside for wedding preparation for the bills ... just have to watch out for all corners and avoid crowded places .. dun wan to get hurt again ... it is not easy to recover from back injuries.

thanks bunbun you recall the forest thingy .. currently i can't picture anything ... just plain blank black screen in my mind. when we 1st started this topic, mine was .... I saw myself standing right in the mid of a huge forest with a evening setting ... quite dark ... trees very indense and very tall... i felt fear within me..... yet glad to see there was a bit of bright light coming from very far end corner ( unable to recall other main details ) ... it always much easy to give advise or say or console one self ... yet so hard to actually do it ... i always been carefree or too carefree with views of life ... just happy go lucky~ .... eversince my sudden loss ... things just changed ... i start to doubt myself ...

coz i kinda already prepare for the worst ... just never expect it to be ... almost like being drag all the way down passby all the 18th levels below... and more to come ...

thanks pink n bun ... ya i think me goin all the way down hill .... someone out there knows n warn me b4 ... been trying my best to think of n look at the brightest side of the world... but saddness still overcome me ... long story ... one after another accidents ... been in n out from the hospital ... mc queenie .. lost of income .. what else more i can say .. ranval been thru lots too .. had a major arugment but managed to overcome most of the whole issue ... but ran still somehow yet to get over some bits n pcs ... should say that now is so much better than b4 ... ran always doing his best to be supportive and to be there for me whenever he can :wub: ROM for more than 2yrs .. can't say ran still my htb

hey anyone can help me anot ... it may sound very silly ... 1stly, i would like to know what is the best way to wash away worst of luck ASAP ... 2ndly, how to recover from depression ... and seeing doc din help much ... 3rdly, i'm nolonger have any tolerance for any level of pain anymore ... just only a slight knock .. i would scream PAIN haiz ... lastly ... can i just do what i want for my wedding now .. or should follow those old folk's pantang reasonings ... or just me going bonky after all what had happened to me lately .. since Sept'08.

hmm.. okie okie .. i still feel that better not to have both kid n car at the same time .. take baby steps 1st , for wedding just siam as long as you can ... esp if you done your ROM already. coz offically MARRIED. set your goals right .... do up your sum for savings ... jia you !! if you need to know more great savings plans , do look for me hor ..... good things must share !! !! =)

totally agree to all for our good health !!

heehee ~ yesh yesh .. ranval ROM on mar 2006 , just for the SK house .. coz it is resale .. need to show marriage cert within 3mths for proof for legally married .. etc etc .... staying here for 2yrs liao .. soon 3yrs .. time passes by so fast ... been siam-ing the customary for ages ... till lately then gave in to my grandmother in law.. bunbun : well, due to unforseen incident .. i stop checking out or prepare for my wedding .. shall kick start next yr Jan ... my wedding venue booked already thus unable to cancel it .. if not, it would be a huge blow to my grandmother in law as she is looking forward for my AD.

hee ~ no wonder my ears been hearing bell rings .. bunbun mentioned moi ..

wah congrats Darrenelle !! !! Your house is so nice ~ :wub:

hey summer, we are so alike ~ me myself being pressured by my grandmother-in-law for the wedding dinner. she wans me to have a proper one as she is upset that i got a "just sign n go" ROM. ranval siam-ing since day1 ... lived together for a yr, got our SK house and ROM at 2006, live together till now , Reno only last yr 2007 and Wedding 2009 ... well, have a good talk with your hubby, list down all the loans and installments you having currently and see thru properly .. when the last payments goin to end, ( within next yr or 2yrs ) ... see how much both of you can bring out and arrange to have proper joined savings a/c n spending a/c ... eg one for baby , one for rain days , one for all the household bills etc ... wedding: yes ( do it if you only are willing to do so , as wedding planning can be very stressful, most imprtly there is no need to rush ) totally agree with others that it is a once a life thingy ... cature n remember that moment always ~ i think you can either hold on a simple and small scale wedding, can check out next yr for great wedding deals at the resturants .. Once the food is great, No one would bother abt the location. Lunchie is always cheaper. (I'm more concerned abt the ppl I'm inviting, as long as they enjoy themselves with the food. I will be happy.) there are lots of gowns you get just off the racks and get the best package of just 2 gowns, one for the white gown and other for the nite. Tea dress can get at anywhere else ... just lookout during the SAles !! Just get a good photographer on your AD, get hold of friends or relatives to arm with cameras for nice candi shots ....catch both of your best smiling moments .. =) or lastly just have a housewarming cum Rom at your new place .. just invite very closed relatives and friends .. havin a buffet and your house will be warm up with all the REN QI !!! baby: i vote NO. you are not financal ready for it, dun rush ... just let things happen neturally. =) dun worry .. everything will fall into places nicely .. once both of you set your minds n hearts together. May you always happy and blissful !! feel free to contact me .. i'm doing my own wedding planning .. thus i can give you the info you need for the best wedding deals. P/S: it's always easlier to give advice to others .. but to act on yourself .. i know it's real hard ...

oh dear :~ congrats and welcome to doggy club !! !! peanut is cutie !! !! :wub: must have a doggie gathering wor ... location to be confirm ...

oh hihi bunbun dunnoe leh .. just type whatever in my mind wor .. maybe wantin you guys able to picture out what happened i guess i yet to try the medicated oil, coz me myself dun like the smell "" spare the rod n spoilt the kid /dog "" you know .. since our last doggy gathering , oreo been humping onto donut's head ... i always have to scream n shout at him or throw toys at him to get his attention... while ran just gives a stern "NO" .. oreo just hop off reluntantly... ranval strongly believe oreo learnt this bad behaviour from summer ..and donut just let him be ... did you recall oreo just stare while summer doing all the actions .. donut just LAN LAN .. and poor yuki being left out all the "fun" ... this sat evening .. will be my 1st flight after missing in action for so long .. mum dun allow me to go anywhere .. just to rest at home n gettin ready for the flt .. huh.. the dogs are still down with tick fever ??? hope they can get well soon ... sayang * 10 all of them for me .. thanks apple jie sorry that i can't join u this sat as me already neglected my own boys lately ... need to be with them more often since now me always at home. thanks for the pm .. the info is very helpful ... i think dogs lick the paws to show how bored they are ... must look out for ways to restore donut's fur back to white ..