hokkaido

Hi there, I am a newbie here, but have been frequenting this forum as a guest long ago for tips on my renovation. recently, i consulted a fengshui master with my wife (ROM 2years ago but haven't hold customary) and was told that we cannot get married before 2009. One question: Is ROM considered married in fengshui view (which the shifu said it's not, since haven't customary and not living together yet)?