Thanks, no worries about saying out the logical truth. Things like that happen but we will need to face it with strength regardless. Yes, he only paid for the first downpayment for the flat and a couple of months' contribution and when he reached 55, he stopped contributing and took out his CPF monies. Not on talking terms anymore, will just leave everything to the court to decide. But I just want to know if any of your have friends undergoing divorce and the court actually judge in favour of the mother's side? I know about the women's charter is very strong in Singapore.