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sighs, same feeling on the above.. i changed all my toilet and room doors but the frame only for my toilet (as it was bi-fold and i wanted normal doors so frame different) and MBR (as i moved the door forward).. son's room door frame remains, when i knocked it sounds like mental but those new frames r wood, don't know will look not uniformed anot coz the doors all face one another then later very ugly.. when i asked the ID, he says when painted all the same colour, looks the same one so don't waste money.. so i oso hopefully looks ok.. anyone got any experience on this?? my common toilet door had to open outwards oso coz toilet too small.. hope no accidents..

how was the sofa coordination?? was at the new place this morning, wanted to pop by yr place to say hi tats y sms u but then hubby's fren and his wife came by to look see my reno oso so we left with them after tat.. see when got u at we at our new place again can go kaypo yr hse!!

my is black somemore, tink FD master come my house will faint!! will post more pics later, going over after breakfast, the carpentry is in the works.. i oso thot so at first.. i tink dark colours as in dark blue/green/red etc this type of dark colours maybe.. coz the black really makes it looks higher, i oso don't understand.. but it looks like a bottomless pit when i look up at the ceiling now vs the white parts of my ceiling.. hehe.. i did not expect the effect to be so dramatic actually when the ID say paint black, i was like 'paint black ok lor'.. then i din tink abt it again till i saw it and feel madly in love with it.. !!

HiroX & oonik grl : i love the black ceiling oso.. was telling my hubby that when the ceilings were white, it felt like the top of his head can hit the ceiling (coz he 1.9m tall) but then now is black ceiling, the ceiling feels so much higher!! xinyi_reiko : looking at end month coz sofa delivering on 26 May.. hehe.. come come, next block only..

haha.. anything that works is a great arrangement.. happy that both of u found balance in that sense.. i still like it to at least hold hands in public still ma, like he worry abt me getting lost so hold my hand.. but i don't really fancy all the hugging and kissing in public la, so er xin.. sometimes i sit mrt, got those couple overly lovey-dovey really makes me puke lor!! there was once, this guy standing in front of me during morning peak hours so crowded hugging the gf nevermind, still go pinch her waist fats.. YUCKS!! wa lau, **** gross.. i have worse impressions of woman from china though.. 'ta shi ai, ma shi deng'.. haha.. i always feel men right, the more love u show them, the more they take u for granted.. if u treat them not-so-nice/lousier, they will treat u better lor.. weird analogy but its true.. so now he more lovey and u more cool, that's why maybe he so clingy, y not u try to be lovey n see if he change to the opposite?? just being creative and suggest la.. anyways, i'm the clingy one oso.. trying to be the not-so-nice/lousier one now to gain more attn from hubby.. hope it works.. haa..

First coat of painting done, at least the place don't look so messy with all the patches on the walls.

don't know got ppl tell u before not, just highlight hor i hear from those experienced ppl, if do everyday will usually get girl, then if there's longer time in between do will usually get boy.. usually la not guaranteed.. so u prefer first one boy or girl?? food and timing also plays a part.. its a science!! haha..

muahahaha, i was laughing like mad during the 'lift farting' part too.. the part on the 'distract him away from computer' one oso super funny, she fantasize abt dressing skimpily and sitting on his lap but end up nagging abt electrical bills.. but its true lor, man are glued to either computer games or x-box/psp games.. sometimes wan to tok like toking to wall.. then they still reply 'i got listen!'.. toot~ my hubby use to love me more than i love me, now its the other way around.. we woman will love more and more each day but man see pretty girl only eyes go there liao.. but we must dress up lor, nowadays those girls outside scary one, don't care married or not married, if like yr husband means ONS liao.. so must dress until nicer than those girls!! plus if got other guys look at you, then he feel kan jiong lor.. the show really tells a lot abt 'nu ren de xin sheng'.. the talking quota is true.. another one that is true is on the 'i fat anot' and 'which top nicer'.. if wan to lie then say not fat la, still say so-so, so-so means still fat can!! haha.. and when we ask which top nicer, usually we have in mind which one liao, so he must ask those right questions like tay bing hui to discreetly get the answer of the top we prefer and agree on it ma!! guys should really watch this show lor, i feel if follow all the fantasize/imaginary scenes is the formula to happy marriage (or at least we will be happy and 25,925,381% satisfied with them la)

As in, she wants everybody to agree and support her that marrying A but loving B and continuing seeing B is correct?? I don't think that's what she wants because she knows that it is wrong.. Or as in she wants everybody to agree and support her to leave A and be with B is the best decision?? I also don't think that's what she wants as honestly, I don't think she will do it with support from strangers.. Or as in she wants everybody to agree and give her even more support that marrying A is correct and tell her how strong she is to stop seeing B?? I also don't think that's what she wants as she already has lots of agreement and support from her family and friends but she's still extremely depressed.. I really think she just wants an outlet.. How I wish love is a simple matter of I love you, you love me, we love each other and be loving forever and ever at the same time.. But love is always so complicated and comes in all sorts of ways, patterns or manners at different times.. I envy and feel happy for those whom have simple love relationships, appreciate what you have as love is never guaranteed for life and may change so appreciate all you can with what you have.. {Just my humble 1 cent being through such relationships before, its may not be true or correct, hope I do not step on any toes.}

ya ya ya!

i see i see, got q one ar?? i thot can walk in just choose coz many units ma.. haha, ya, our place really fang bian.. yr parents know u too well lor.. actually i tink u only need a car when u r pregnant onwards coz can fetch u to doc.. plus kid got even more impt, so many things to take go out so got car more convenient, can dump everything into the car.. tat time before i renovate, i got go say hi to my neighbours n inform them i renovating so going to be noisy but as i went in the morning, quite a no of them not home.. keke..

wa, really pet lover!! a lot of work lei.. hehe.. if only all pet owners are like u so responsible and loving, we wun have so many abandons le..

wei, i think we are adding on to her pressure with all our replies le. don't reprimand or criticize her can? i don't know but i pity her and her situation however indecisive she might be. its a big step. she just wants an avenue to vent her sadness and frustrations because she has noone else to turn to. don't wanna read the news with another mrt sucide case lei.

talk le lor, no change, then if i still talk some more, he says naggy, so i leave it le..

ooo, yes, nothing is cuter than a baby!! its amazing lor.. when i was expecting, i wonder about our reproduction system producing a life.. such a miracle really..

haha, well, like 'doing' it everyday!! i tink fil r not as bad as mil lei.. less meddlesome.. and don't treat u like u r the son-snatcher..

i see i see.. haha.. no la, not ugly, just..erm..special?? but yr fsm very creative wor, my dad oso got engage fsm for his place last time, he's doing paint business, the fsm nv ask him to paint multi-colour lei.. hee.. try it out lor, scarely you step step high rise in office lei!!

i see i see, coz no units left le?? that time when i bought this, was also considering that area coz buy from hdb cheaper ma, but feel that its really too out of the way.. at least me the blur mommy forget anything for my son's school, can go over popular to buy.. stay in segar need to drive out, ma fan lor.. then primary school kid sure got lots of last min things (especially stationary) need to get one.. but i so happy i found u la, neighbour!! heh..

wa lau, that feeling i oso totally can understand.. i oso very scare tat my colour choices turns out all wrong and become some of those photos of units i see that sucks lor.. somemore i'm spending a bomb and still not nice, then i will really .. so what i do is, i will make a choice but still tell my ID 'ey, i choose this la, i think should be nice but u decide la, u professional ma, i want my house to look like showflat ok, if u tink yr choice is better than take it!'.. haha, then he become very scared.. but then at least if it turns out ugly right, i can blame someone else!! muahahaha, i evil one la, else if i choose right, not nice right, i will be the one being blame.. keke..

wa, the cats very very very cute lor!! i have same policy for pets and kids = love to play with other ppl one, no time for own one.. ey, actually i am one of those close door neighbour u all talking abt lei.. i hate ppl peeping in so my door is nv open one.. but i will say HI one la, if u say HI to me.. i not dao until like that, i'm just don't like prying eyes.. haha..

Are you looking for contractor renovation company or designer renovation company? Got difference. If you know what you are looking for and have in mind all the materials you want to use, then can use contractor. But if you looking for someone to give you ideas on how to do up the place, colour coordination etc, then is designer. I'm using Frontier Concept at IMM. ID is Vincent Lee (mobile: 91997950). Its a designer renovation company. The company's design and worksmanship are pretty superior and hence their quotations may not be the lowest you can find for the same things you do with another company. I think so far I'm happy that the ID is super accessible (I can think of something at 12am and sms him to tell him) and patient (I'm super ma fan and very naggy). I was super paranoid at first when I was sourcing for ID as I was so worried the company may close down, ID disappear and what not after reading all the horror stories in the forum. But so far, the company given me a very reliable feeling especially when I know they even compensated a client (another forummer here) after one of the ID messed up her renovation and sacked that ID immediately. Anyways, good luck in your sourcing. Fate and feeling plays a big part!!

haha, ask hdb to change the panes foc ma.. change the whole thing need $$ wor.. havent see the for it yet, so poor le.. now i very depress.. there are so many air-con trunking and water pipes running all over my house.. my ID already try to conceal a lot in the false ceiling but i still can see quite a bit lo.. very sad.. but he will be covering up more coz he says the boxing up is only partially done.. i hate seeing those trunking, water pipes, electrical wirings etc one..

haha, i guess she do love A in a different way.. obligation is a kind of love too.. i believe A and B are in totally different categories in her heart ba..

Toilet windows changed. It was those lourve kind to one piece type lor. Easier to clean and looks simpler. But I think the ID had abit of problem with HDB for the permit at first. Anyways, I love the new windows. Hee.. Waiting for ID to arrange for the tilers to come back to touch up the tiles as they left a gap to change the windows (tiling was first thing being done in the renovation). Can't wait for it to be done and sanitary installed.

but why need to find nicer man?? i feel woman nowadays can live by themselves without man lor.. i mean if my hubby yells at me in public, i don't think i can accept lei.. ai ya, but come to think of it, i yell at my son sometimes in public too, sighs, time to re-evaluate my educate-son-strategy.. oopps, i digress, just divorce him if its extreme, don't need wait nicer man le, what if this nicer man nv come?? but u r not a shrew to yell back at him in public lor.. if he started it, he is the b**turd and u r the innocent.. that's wat i tink la.. how can u let him yell at u and nv fight back?? if u worried abt image, just stalk off.. my 2 cents la.. no experience (touch wood, choy choy choy) but i think that's what i will do.. hope i nv come to this stage..