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but i find loving the other party more or less has no relation with straying lei.. i've seen people whom love their partners more than their partners love them but still stray.. i feel both must love as much then the relationship will be soild, strong and stable.. when one person love the other too much and its not reciprocated, they might start diverting this extra love somewhere else where they their feelings get appreciated and return.. its true that it takes two hands to clap.. else one hand want to clap the other don't want also no sound..

wa, lv bag! so good lor.. i perllini bag my hubby oso nv buy lor..

really ar?? his sofa very near the tv?? got less than 3m?? i really like the hitachi plasma design lor - simple and sleek.. have u seen the magazine yet??

then i'm the second senior citizen around at 27 lor.. jaren: i got married at 20 la, so u still ok!! hehe.. bluberi: where u studying?? applefreak: i checked, my ID oso says if can do without skirtings for yr large homogeneous tiles will be very nice, timber a bit outdated but still ok and mosiac is totally out.. then for the carpet wall, he says it depends on the wall size and carpet quality, will be more expensive than floor as it takes 2 person to lay wall carpets.. i asked if using my carpet quality then he says will cost abt $900 for one medium wall but abit hard to describe to u medium wall is how big.. ask patrick to quote u?? have u read the magazines yet?? hehe.. all: feeling super tired today, mondays in banks are second worse day of the week (worst is day after public holiday) so going to sleep already.. i read abt the investment parts, ut are good if u cannot monitor the share market continuously as for share right, really to have good broker and u must have time to monitor.. applefreak is right abt the sales charge, amc etc for ut but let me teach you all an evil way (i'm actually breaking my own rice bowl), go banks pretend want to buy ask for fund recommendations but then buy from www.fundsupermart.com, their charges are much lower as the fund house don't need to pay bank commissions for sales staff and marketing materials like brochures.. but then again, usually the mass market sales staff will recommend 'flavours of the month' products like which ut they are pushing to sell more due to committments to the fund houses and also different ut got different commissions so they tend to push those that they need to hit quota for their bosses and pay the highest commission.. hence, it may not be truly good even with their recommendations.. but guideline, high risk = high return (single country funds, single sector funds) or low risk = low return (global funds, bond funds).. nites!!

i love him more.. when he is happy, i'm happy.. when he is not happy, i'm not happy.. i can only thrive in my work when i know he is happy.. when he is not happy, i can't focus on my work or anything i do.. i'm a 'xiao nu ren'.. envy.. i lack communication with my hubby before marriage, now we are still fumbling along..

this one i very agree with you.. i still though that time i was pregnant so hormones causing me to be so emotional over a simple question and comment.. haha.. 'siao shun' i nv think so much lei.. but i find we cannot depend on kids next time like our current and older generation people's thinking.. i tell my hubby, we must save enough money for our old age, next time son grow up, we feed him, clothe him and pay for his studies till he is 23 yrs old then he is on his own.. i don't expect him to give us money, as long as he don't ask more money from me can liao.. then if i cannot get along with my daugther-in-law don't want to stay with us, nvm, just once in a month, he bring the grandkids to see us for dinner good enough.. coz i treat my mil super lousy (don't really visit her) so i think i will have retribution one, my future-daugther-in-law sure hates me too.. haha.. then my hubby think i siao, think so far and he still old people thinking la, feel that our children should support us..

sighs, that's how my friend's bf-turn-husband is too.. but he is to the extreme coz at first she tell me he will hit himself till he hurts or bleed then my friend still nv listen to him, after a few times he like that, end up he beats her.. maybe tell yrself, he loving u so much is better than u loving someone else so much and getting hurt one day.. that's one way i will console myself if i'm you now having no road to take but the one that is in front.. coz i find love cannot be trusted, man's heart changes too easily..

today episode, tay ping hui ask for divorce, so sad.. sometimes we do so much for them but they don't see it just like tay ping hui's character steven.. but the marriage counselling part is good.. i just ask my hubby to list 5 good things and 5 bad things about me and i listed for him.. hehe, i think its a good exercise for us to remind each other of what we did good (and continue doing) or no good (try to do it lesser or change).. my hubby oso don't like i wear less less.. but on the road right, got girl wear short skirt oni turn and look.. work i oso dress coz bo bian, meet customers but when go out with him, i wear lok kok oso coz he go anywhere and everywhere, he is always in polo-t, shorts and slippers, so when i wear too nice vs his not nice look so odd, like china girl lor!!

i think all starting relationships, newly-weds or one-in-a-million-good-man will behave that way - the nice u r to him, e nicer he is to u.. but i find usually after yrs of marriage, the rest of the man tend to find anything you say more than 1 sentence is naggy and don't like to share their problems. and if they do not belong to the 3 categories i just listed right, still super nice to u after yrs of marriage, there is a 4th category, means he is having a affair outside so come back always super nice to u always to make it up to u! but so tough lei, play cool, i'm almost biting my tongue liao.. its just not me lor.. kinda sad hor, cannot be me to gain more love!! and what do they say about loving us no matter who we are when we were pak-tor-ing?!?! bluff one.. i tell u the 'loose your leash on them a little, they will start to gan jiong abit' is really a natural phenomenon..

in the same ship really, my hubby is also ord-ing soon, clearing leave now.. i ask him go drive taxi coz i think those shameless woman don't like taxi uncles, they prefer white collar workers.. haha, so i feel more safe and secure.. but karen's qns was if you are sober and clear-headed lei.. i tell u, if he is DRUNK, its a GONE CASE!

no, when u sign the contract, it should reflect the pre-increase gst amount already.. but if u have variation order (additional items) to be done and quotation done in july, may incur.. nevertheless, you can and must psycho yr ID to absorb yr gst ma.. the price my ID quote when i ask how much (for my variation order) is inclusive of gst one lei, so his quotation right, the item amt is odd amt coz he deduct out for gst, then when lump with gst amt, its the amt he tell me.. er, sounds confusing anot?

wa yr place looks super cozy and nice with all the furniture in.. must find time to go kaypo lor.. will u be there during the weekdays one??

but the LG washer i really don't know i will regret anot.. coz my old washer is samsung, work good for me for the last 6 yrs.. then thinking of brandt, whirlpool or electrolux but very expensive.. then at the shop, the salesperson was also recommendin EF which i nv hear before so don't dare to buy.. and most salespersons i met when i tell them i looking at samsung washer, they kept condeming the brand.. so end up buy LG lor, within budget and hear before brand.. plus it doesn't hurt my da chang jin is endorsing the brand.. haha.. hence its really last min, no prior research or anything abt LG, at shop decide kind of decision.. how come u buy LG?? mitsubishi fridge was coz my best friend got it first then i buy the same lor.. got automatic ice-maker!! haha.. wanted fisher & payel fridge but oso too expensive.. if only can buy those brands i want without budget.. if only i marry rich husband la!! haha.. anyways, so the u got extra la32r71b for sale?? i bought mine 2 mths ago for $1800 with $650 taka vouchers lei.. just a guide for u to price yrs..

nowadays, i trying new tactic with hubby.. trying to be cool with him so he will love me more.. sighs, very tiring lei coz i'm a big chatterbox so its tough trying not to talk to him so much, trying not to show too much concern..

coz if someone close to them know abt it, this someone close (friends, family) will hate their partners and advise them to leave them etc, then they have more pressure lor.. who like their someone close to hate their partners?? so they would rather suffer in silence lor..

i don't believe what man say lor!! haha.. but i like listening to my hubby white lies than his brutal honest truth la..

haha, i would love a girl lor!! actually i'm under extreme pressure to have another one lor.. everytime i talk to my parents or any friend, colleague, family, relative, associate, in fact anyone at all whom know i've a kid, they will ask me why i still have not try for second one and say the age gap very big already, son lonely, blah blah blah.. i feel like recording all my reasons down and play when someone ask me again, very tiring.. honestly, i wish to have also lor but i feel i wun have enough time for the second and plus i want to give them the best i can so not enough money oso.. now got new house, studying part-time.. all need tme and money.. on top of that, i oso hope for healthy girl la, if healthy boy a bit boring.. haha.. anyways, this question 'why don't have second one yet? faster!' is added into my HATE list of questions.. another question i hated when i was pregnant was 'boy or girl?'.. haha.. i'm weird right?!? coz that time, when i reply boy, then they will go 'u r so lucky! boy!' i feel like retorting them 'u mean girl then i suay la? in this day and age, boy or girl oso same ma, its our kid lei so y must u say - wa, boy, u so lucky.' i think it was my hormones at play tat time oso la coz everytime i get that question i ll get all emotional and stare daggers at them.. haha..

i think those from day 1 already in sales one are ok coz by the time u married him, most probably he has been through lots of temptations and can resist le. communication is really extremely important, karen, try to talk to him and seek his patience to why u will feel this way, i think every girl will feel the same way as u if they are u. ask him to read this thread if he don't believe lor, its not like we want to kick up a big fuss over it. i agree on the sensing part, i feel our woman's sixth sense is always very 'zun' (accurate) one. just that we want to pursue anot. and i feel, if they want to do it, do it cleanly la - 'secret eat finish must clean mouth properly'. it takes two hands to clap. share a joke i read recently to cheer everyone up and hope our man do the same: The Good Husband Jack wakes up with a huge hangover after attending his company's Dinner and Dance party. Jack is not normally a drinker, but the drinks didn't taste like alcohol at all. He didn't even remember how he got home from the party. As bad as he was feeling, he wondered if he did something wrong. Jack had to force himself to open his eyes, and the first thing he sees is a couple of aspirins next to a glass of water on the side table. And, next to them, a single red rose! Jack sits up and sees his clothing in front of him, all clean and pressed. He looks around the room and sees that it is in perfect order, spotlessly clean. So is the rest of the house. He takes the aspirins, cringes when he sees a huge black eye staring back at him in the bathroom mirror. Then he notices a note hanging on the corner of the mirror written in red with little hearts on it and a kiss mark from his wife in lipstick: "Honey, breakfast is on the stove, I left early to get groceries to make you your favourite dinner tonight. I love you, darling! Love, Jillian" He stumbles to the kitchen and sure enough, there is hot breakfast, steaming hot coffee and the morning newspaper. His son is also at the table, eating. Jack asks, "Son...what happened last night?" "Well, you came home after 3 A.M., drunk and out of your mind. You fell over the coffee table and broke it, and then you puked in the hallway, and got that black eye when you ran into the door. Confused, he asked his son, "So, why is everything in such perfect order and so clean? I have a rose, and breakfast is on the table waiting for me??" His son replies, "Oh THAT!... Mom dragged you to the bedroom, and when she tried to take your pants off, you screamed... ... ... ... "Leave me alone, I'm married!!"

nope, i don't have lei, was flipping through them in borders.. hehe.. and i forgot which one is it - home & decor or square rooms coz i read both of them when i was there.. that homeowner's ID was quite creative and really like the cats' house instead of her house, i think she has 5 cats.. haha, so good, meow and it shall be given!! sure, i ask tomorrow, will let you know ok..

no problem gal!! our weekends are burnt shopping for stuffs for our new place hor.. today i was at katong looking at appliances oso.. tiring and also mind-boggling with all the choices we have to evaluate, this or that or this..

congrats! happy furnishing.. don't forget the pics..

how come? bought another tv? hey, i just realised we got the same samsung la32r71b! edited for second time coz i just saw we oso got the same washer and fridge brand. haha~

how are you? any updated pics? hee..

timber or mosiac with yr homogeneous tiles? honestly i can't visualise lei, i'm a poor imaginer. i ask my ID tomorrow when i talk to him for his comments then i post back here ok? but what colour timber (parquet or dark wood etc colour) or mosaic u have in mind?

I think Teka is having a promotion again, 20% off everything with a 5% extra (25%) on their electrical hobs. Deleted the sms from their sales staff from their show office at Clemenceau so forgot when ending, can call and check if you are are keen. I lugi the extra 5% as I got their vitro-ceramic induction hob but at only at 20% discount 2 weeks ago. Sighs..