LinDa

if only i'm so determined to stick to my original budget of $25K too.. so when housewarming?? haha.. so sad lor, i'm the last reno to be done!! xinyi one oso done, yrs oso done.. can't wait for mine to be completed..

Upset!! Have informed Vincent about the sequence of my MBR wardrobe and some minor changes in moving some of the compartments but he totally forgot about it!! Now the wardrobe is up and not what I wanted.. He has promised to change it but I was so excited looking forward to my wardrobe and when I saw it, I was . Its was nothing very major so hubby says it ok, we can live with it but I told him 'we paid near $3K for that 10ft wardrobe you know, it definitely has to be what I want lor, if not everytime i see the wardrobe for the next 10 yrs, I'll be reminded of this mistake., and to think I was so looking forward to my kickass 10ft wardrobe of my dreams.' I hate double-working..

Registrar's Address Before you are joined in matrimony, it is my duty to remind you of the solemn and binding character of the vows you are about to make. Marriage according to law is the union of one man and one woman, voluntarily entered into for life, to the exclusion of all others. Do I understand that you __________________ and you ________________ are here of your own free will for the purpose of becoming man and wife? Couple answer together: Yes To Bridegroom Will you, __________________ take this woman ______________ to be your wedded wife, to live together in the legal estate of matrimony? Will you love her, comfort her, honour and keep her in sickness and in health and forsaking all others, be faithful to her, so long as you both shall live? Answer: I will To Bride Will you, _________________ take this man _________________ to be your wedded husband, to live together in the legal estate of matrimony? Will you love him, comfort him, honour and keep him in sickness and in health and forsaking all others, be faithful to him, so long as you both shall live? Answer: I will Registrar's Instructions Take this ring and put it upon the third finger of his/her left hand and repeat after me: In token and pledge of our constant faith and abiding love, with this ring I marry you. Registrar's Pronouncement As both of you have given your consent before me to live together in matrimony and have solemnly promised, each to the other to do so, I now pronounce you two Man and Wife.

he's so sweet.. i 'bu she de' lei.. everytime i will see see see but nv buy.. so far i oni got 1..

yr dad's drill is those powerful plug socket electrical drills?? may need to borrow after we move in coz my drill is those rechargeable battery type not strong enough to drill holes in walls lor.. which ikea u went - tampines or ikea?? i'm going this weekend, most probably tampines, free parking and bigger.. hope not crowded, i hate crowds.. mj is my favourite past-time lor!! haha.. next time u short of khaki call me ok, next blk nia, my hubby sure let me go over.. haha..

Thanks girl!!

we got daily word quota to hit ok!

i don't understand how come this type of mil exists lor, want son to fail in his marriage..

**** lor!! so gross.. no woman's dignity can..

same here.. i earn $1 spend $2.. i don't like to shop with hubby one coz when i ask him nice anot, he will ask how much, if cheap then nice, expensive then not nice.. my theory: if its expensive, it may not be nice but if its cheap, confirm not nice!! haha..

i understand da jie.. but i actually still don't know what i want exactly.. everyday i just busy busy busy with work, with new house, with school and with family.. then like that one day liao.. sometimes when its friday, i feel so scary coz i don't know how the week zoom past.. it was like monday yesterday then suddenly friday.. what i have = labour, sweat what i want = money, career, love, time i do aspire to be rich.. i'm materialistic la!!

sorry brother, i bad at colour coordination one.. don't want to hai you by suggesting ar!!

i still cant see some of the pics but those i can see, yr place looks great!! i love the white kitchen. kitchen floor oblong tiles and unique toilet tiles.. but how come yr basin so cheap, only $20?? my is also squarish similar to yrs but semi-recessed and cost me abt $200.. have the housewarming before AD lor, if not new house not new le.. that's what my gf did la.. hehe..

Have fun renovating!! !!

haha.. think most probably i sticking with the decision.. now i praying price DROP somemore!! !!

my place oso got those top structural beams like in yr foyer and i hate it!! so good save so much moolah $$, i must do house warming then maybe got people will buy gifts for us, but by that time, i would have furnish it fully so cash gifts preferred to heal my heart.. but i still don't know if want to do house warming anot coz not much sitting space in the house to accomodate many people.. sounds like lots of progress on yr new home and marriage preparations.. so exciting!! more updates when you can girl.. !! going to sleep soon myself.. nites!!

my ID has been rushing me to go ikea too coz need to get shelfing then his workers can mount.. no time!! trying to find time this weekend, i sure exceed yr amt.. but i'm sure u bought lots of stuffs with $500!! haha, my sofa only 3 seater, got to buy extra chairs put at home in case of guests.. the material is fabric?? er, u meant u want to adjust the light position right?? or dining table position??

So intend to buy the dining from where? I saw nice dining tables at OM! !! Ya, I read before in some FS book, computer/tv/radio near beds are not good, if must have, then under the law of FS, must be covered by with cloth or something. Hee..

yay~ finally starting, i tell you, tiling is the most most most exciting part.. i don't know why, but i was so happy seeing my newly tiled floor. hehe.. !! no regrets on hacking right!! my mbr oso looks so spacious after hacking, love it totally..

read all abt married woman grouses in the 'tying the knot' and 'married life & retirement' sub-forum lor!! haha.. no problem girl!! i've seen some really nice mosaic ideas but mosaic is expensive lei.. or u can follow HiroX idea, he mosiac i think like one row of his kitchen floor, quite unique and looks nice in the photo!! oh dear, must be very uncomfortable with the wet feeling.. now i'm worried about mine..

To all married guys and girls, I think we should have this statement as part of our scared vows. If I forward this to ROM and ask them to amend our marriage vows to accomodate this sentence, will they accept? I really think its very relevant in today's context than 'in sickness or in health blah blah blah'.

For me, nope as I only intend to have 1 or max max 2 kidas. Hence, I do not think they will be able to do so. However, I do appreciate nringing me out for dinners during important occasions like my birthday and Mother's days. Allowance is not necessary also. Will work harder, save and invest to grow a comfortable retirement nest egg. That's what I hope to achieve la, but looking at the way I'm spending on my renovation, seems very hard. Haha~ Edited : Ai yo, trying to do poll, but not successful.

Muahaha, sorry sorry, I digress.. We are typical woman la, can gossip about anything and everything..

Haha, so I actually don't drink until drunk.. Or I drink with colleagues whom we know will look after one another and decent la.. Must be 100% error free for married woman!! But he not old enough lei.. So I tell him go drive bus first, even better, got CPF can help pay for new flat!! Haha..

But he slept with his ex today! Imagine the wife keep calling at home while he is having sex with his ex! If you are the wife and you are frantically calling him and he is having sex with his ex, will you forgive him?? And I bet in the end, though I know ending is they are closer after the ordeal, if HUANG BR know TAY PH slept with the ex while she's calling that very day, will she forgive him, I'm sure in the show, the script writers will not write that he tell her 'Hey, remember the other day you were calling me 13 times, I was having sex with Ai-Mei lei.'.. If he is having sex and she is not frantically looking for him still not so bad.. But he was and that is quite disgusting and sad lor.. He dump his ex coz of HUANG BR lor.. Don't know why dump but he married HUANG BR coz she was pregnant.. I think all of us do think about our ex at one point of another, but to go back to them depends on so much factors.. If still single, no problem la.. If married, confirm cannot la.. If attached, it will really depends on lots of factors like current bf how long, how strong relationship, why broke up initially, still love each other.. And if its the ex whom originally dump, also depends on what reason was given during the break-up, if it was because of someone else then the ex dump u, u still want her/him back meh?? Ok, I totally agree SEX is very important in a marriage.. Its like the glue that bonds..