Share a theory for newly wed couple : 1. This age, everyone is very individual, "I" is important. 2. Heard of squeezing tooth paste cause divorce? So to keep marriage, try to reduce confrontation(old ppl said that). If 2 person squeeze tooth paste differently, then get 2 tubes, each use own tube - No problem liao; If you insist 1 tube, also can - get automatic toothpaste squeezer. 3. Next is house works, today, ppl expect to share/take turn do. Mopping, wash toilet, wash dishes, even laundry can cause quarrels. (When mum is out of the picture, very hard right?) How often 1 party expect the other to execute his/her turn to housekeep, but that partner is tied up(s/he feel dirty, but I dun think so yet) ? This is even worst when babies comes, tired and rest is priority. Today, couple renovate house with Corporate approach, budget generously, house looks very cool/corporate. Toilet also got 2 wash basins to coop with 'morning rush'. If your budget is generously to the extend of looking at brands, the idea is to look far beyond and buy it right now with your budget. To reduce laborious work: 1. Anyone feel floor is dirty, activate robot to do the job; 2. Anyone feels toilet needs washing, activate robot to wash it ; 3. Try a handy device - timer plug: If you are complained for wasting electricity by keeping device on when unused, eg charging hp. (I buy T A I Y O, S/tech, also brought fm Ikea 2-in-1 pack unfortunately,1 is not reliable). 4. If you need to catch TV program, get a hubstation recorder, scheduled recording. 5. If hanging laundry to dry is a chore after washing, get a dryer. Note: Ironing is still a issue 6. If car noone wash, goto the station. 7. Dishwasher helps you wash dishes. The idea is dun let chores gets the better of both of you.