Phantom

You excited anot abt the big day? lol...

I think we go malaysia lah.. more places to take pictures.. lol... Its Chinois not Cheena heh heh..

cornetto, Didn't realize that you had dug up the post and continued until i read the thread again. What I'm going to say is what some other forumers had already said, things your friends might had told you or even options that you have thought about yourself. Please share with your husband this story: One day, Mr. Pig and Ms. Chicken were having bacon and eggs for breakfast and they got to talking about how their life was. Ms. Chicken: " Mr. Pig, everyday, these Human Beans keep coming by and keep telling me to LAY MORE EGGS. I tell you, its really a pain in the *ss and the kind of commitment and sacrifice I'm going through. Its just too much I tell you!" Mr. Pig Nodded and continued eating. Ms. Chicken continued her ramblings throughout breakfast until suddenly.. Mr. Pig interjected and said " Ms. Chicken, here you all talking about commitment and sacrifice and all these Human Beans are asking of you, is to lay more eggs. This breakfast we are having, Bacon and Eggs. Take a good look.... .... I need to cut a piece of me just for the Human Beans to have breakfast. So please, don't tell me about commitment and sacrifice when you have obviously no idea what that is." Ms. Chicken keep quiet and left. I hope you and everyone else can take away this phrase, "Sacrifice is painful." It hurts but we do it not because of obligations but because of love. Any parents waking up early to send their kids to school? Why would they do this? Is this a question of Obligation or an act of Love? Any people here supporting their parents livelihood? Why would they do this? Is this a question of Obligation or an act of Love? There have been some opinions expressed and one or two could be construed as quite, how do i put it, extreme? but not without their own merit. I would suggest you to firstly: Look at yourself, your attitude towards the relationship, your attitude towards your spouse, your actions in this relationship. (i'm not saying that you are wrong, please do not misconstrue my intentions but I have helped a couple who are both my friends, salvage a relationship that was on the brink of divorce, but no matter what wrong the man had in the relationship, the wife had a little part to play; hence i'm suggesting to you to evaluate yourself critically because in the event a couple sits down to talk, there is always issues of negativity from either party. At least you would have been prepared) Secondly, having been married to this man who you call your husband, I believe that if the clock was turned, you would have still done the same, even if you knew you would be unhappy today. you have to evaulate yourself, if it means that I would need to have 101% commitment and sacrifice to this relationship, will I want to do this? Ultimately, the other hand has to come around to show his commitment and his sacrifice to maintain build and develop this relationship. The million dollar is: "Staying Married" Is this a question of Obligation or an act of Love? If its the questionable obligation, you have your answer. Otherwise, you guys have plenty to work on. -What is an act of love to you might not be to another person. (eg Giving you a kiss every morning?) You guys need to work out each other's expectation and work around it. If applied properly and sincerely, I do believe that everything will work out fine. Me and Mrs Phantom do have our arguements but its always forgotten in due time. We're also learning as with everyone else and just like you and your other half. Two roads diverged in the woods and I; I took the path less travelled by and that has made all the difference. Regards, Mr. Phantom

Wa Lao Eh.. that is really .... If really need to go down to such stage.. then i think i go malaysia liao.. more things to shoot.. GCW have smaller ballrooms. Victorian, I'll go for -Four Seasons -Goodwood Park -Intercontinental I think the decor is much suited for victorian style weddings.. I haven't signed on the dotted line but estimated is 25 Feb 09 Still got somethings to iron out.

the SCB One account huh? well, one card or another, its just for convenience.

... lol.. go to banquet venue toake PS.. that one is really ultimate. lol.. security guard reminds me of the new jack neo show..

WA KAOZ.. Dempsey take photo also cannot !? the tree belong to them ? What has singapore become. everything also NEED MONEY! Holiday Inn always give me good impression. I remember mum's friend bring me and my sister go eat ice-cream when were were like kids.. lol... Hey you. Are we all contesting for holding at least stars venue?

ah buay lah.. ha ha ha.. still waiting.. and looking around.. malaysia like abit inconvenient.. singapore like **** expensive. problems problems. who's got the problems?

Sunday next day is a weekda. I've seen fort canning.. special place as you mentioned..

Still Water Runs Deep. At the same time, everyone is equal in god's eyes (regardless which religion) Don't worry so much, make make.. lose lose.. just work hard to make the money back. How to chiong.. ha ha... next day guests got work.. and wedding.. wanna cheong also not with guests.. ha ha ha.. Grand Shanghai is nice, i do like the design. very chinois.

WAH KAOZ.. take photo also must pay !? Chijmes is nothing really. unless u doing a church wedding.. then again there are other nicer cathedrals around. do a garden wedding.. or poolside wedding also nice.. lol.. aiyah.. whatever it is.. as long as you happy.. don't do also nevermind.. HA HA HA.. spend all the money on a 60day Europe Trip. ha ha ha.. xinyi u don't humble please.. u book oriental leh. we book GCW. ha ha ha..

I went to Meritus Mandarin. Food not too bad.

Yah.. the Unagi also TOP TOP.. hee hee. Misson Failed.. ha ha.. in the end you also not holding thhere.. ha ha ha... so how now.. which restaurant? aiyah.. just keep going wedding show.. see got any good deal anot.. ha ha ha..

I don't want to add anything except that in life, obstacles are placed there by god to mould a person for the future. Take heart that there are still ppl who love you, care for you and will always be there for you. Don't let negative events steal whatever love and compassion that is left in you. Cheers!

Hi cornetto, we were sitting beside each other.. the food was fantastic. they had sharks fin and abalone for buffet.. lol... even codfish.. the usual lucky draw had some lucky winners... how many star not important.. important thing is happy with budget and happy with the place. alot of people are paying five star prices for four star hotels.. so its ok.. its the market the has increased the price, your loved ones and parents and friends also won't want you to bust your budget and be miserable right? Oriental is Sui Sui.. I also second that. For me I feel that I like Oriental and Intercon the best. Boh pian can convince you to take GCW.. lol... my friend also told me Novotel Clarke Quay is quite posh. I haven't seen it myself. send to me leh.

Yup. For everything else.. there's mastercard.. lol..

dun make us gian leh.. so many gowns

Keep wedding dates away at least 3weeks before and after.. if kiasu.. 1 mth to 1/2 mth. They will need to set up.. do testing... and trial runs.. This is just to be safe. but we will all know after the first year. =) Now still new.. difficult to gauge

Air, that is correct.

aiya.. i look wrong forum.. lol.. u check out the post on top..

apologies.. its on www.singaporebrides.com.sg the forum section... aiyo.. my fault... its here http://www.malaysiabrides.com/forum/index....d&pid=71178

Nope. You've made my doubts clearer. heh heh. thanks alot.. have you read some bad press abt it in the sgbrides forum? i'm quite interested to go over and take a look though..

... maybe.. i just looked at it from a different perspective? !!

lol.. cannot look too much at pretty models.. lol.. oh yah poses mean what.. when taking photo? or in the photo album? its quite a difference leh.. if in photo album only.. then ok.. but if its taking photo.. then.. quite restricted right? sorry first time.. so very blur..

oh, the person gave us complimentary... .. meaning that we better sign up type.. ha ha ha.. you must pay for the tickets normally.. did you register? or receive invites? i dun like restriction leh.. later not nice.. then say must pay again... no lah.. i'm meaning is normally after you reserve already.. i just afraid need to keep going in and out to do the fitting..