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But the more gowns you have, the more photos you are going to take, the more you are tempted to top up for those photos..heh heh

Hmm i think the stars are just a number....most impt is you must like the place...give you 7 stars hotel, you don't like it also no point....

They definitely do lah, if not, they wouldn't have married us...but i think women adapt more easily to marriage life than men...women also understand the concept of marriage better than men...that is why there's a gap in expectations. Cornetto, i think rather than letting the issue pass time and again, y not address it once and for all? U would be torturing yourself inside if you do not sort this out. Talking it out would make you feel better and make your hubby understand you better...let him know your expectations...let him know that the world doesn't revolve around him too so y is he so self centred and only cared about himself? If all else fails, try a tit for tat solution....he really needs a good kick in the n*** to wake up his idea...

Wah you still got 6...i got 5 only....

Should have...the resort quite big...enjoy planning ya trip!!

wah seh!! so many ah?? How much is your package?

Agree with chew@pple...to make your marriage work and last, both parties need to put in effort... Hihi you can just email to them reservation@holidayinn-batam.com then just inform them the package you are interested in...they will even help you book the ferry tickets...I just came back from the soulmate package 2 weeks ago

Hey storeberry, thanks for the invitation! Wow your pics are all very nice!! Very dreamy I like!! :no: How many gowns did you have? Looks like a lot leh!

hi storeberry, my roman blinds cost me 270m each Hihi thanks! My bar counter actually all DIY...bought all the stuff from IKEA....can't afford the one that my ID charged so got to look for alternatives hehe... Oh I got the light at Arcade Lighting at Balestier, costs 50 only...it's kinda like a rattan ball actually

Can I view too??

My hubby called up red apple to ask them abt the delivery of our sofa and dining table next sat..kenny confirmed that that shipment is already on the way...shd be able to deliver next sat.....i just pray hard....

Did you find out why? If you felt that things have worsened, have you done anything to salvage the situation? Cannot just sit and wait for things to happen...u really ought to ask him...maybe he is feeling too stressed up too....

Was he already like this during your courtship days?

I think you are too upset now...but really, u need to drag ur hubby to have a heart to heart talk....dun give up on your marriage. I'm sure you don't know why he treats you this way too, you must find out then...dun give up....

Ya agree with diva that patience is the key....takes time...u can't change him overnight....till now, i'm still trying to understand my hubby...at times, i also feel the same way as you, have i married the wrong guy?? Then I realise I have faults too that he doesn't take to heart.....just that I chose to be more verbal abt it...we will talk abt the issue in the open and trash everything out, then everything will be very sweet for the next few weeks or months...then few months later, same issue happens again, we talk again.....ppl do forget sometimes....we all need constant reminders...trashing it out from time to time helps...u won't have so much pent-up anger in you...it's not healthy to hold so much anger inside your heart... it's through frequent communication only can u understand each other's needs better....work on it....dun kp thinking whether u married the wrong guy...it's not constructive to the marriage at all....u two need to sit down and work out your problems...force him to do it...it's the only way to maintain the marriage....avoiding the problem and treating it doesn't exist will be detrimental in the long run...i know it's been said to death but really, it takes 2 hands to clap...dun assume u know what the other party's thinking...u nvr know...

Frankly speaking, i think the best person to go with you is your hubby....just a one night weekend stay will do...there cannot stay long otherwise u will feel very bored....2D1N stay just nice...and because there is pretty nothing much you can do there except nua and spa, both of u can talk your heart out..he won't have any distractions at all...i think it's the best time to talk then...rekindle your love a bit....

Things will definitely get better but it will depend on how you handle the situation...if you choose to suffer in silence and not talk abt this issue in the open with your hubby, things can only go one way, downhill....communication is the key....need to be open about your feelings...otherwise the more you hide, the more miserable u feel, the more you over-analyse, the more u sink into depression....

aiyoh choy choy! touch wood...what lose arm lose leg....pls remain intact hor... not that you are being unfair to your friends, but with friends, you share your troubles, they can offer u another perspective, it's always good to talk to someone....dun sit there and think alone, i can guarantee u things confirm get worse....you will feel even more stressed.... No lah i figured most likely he just duno how to handle u when u are down, just scared of saying wrong things...like my hubby....guys are like that, not like girls who are better at consoling ppl....i think u two need to have a good talk....tell him your concerns so he understands how u feel...no point just thinking that whether u married right guy or wrong guy....there can be no conclusion like that.....u only end up getting more white hair....

yup, just a 45min ferry ride? But dun go alone lah....round up a few friends go there for spa...pamper yourself a bit...if you take time off alone, u will feel worse cos your mind will tend to go haywire with all the thinking....friends can help cheer u up and divert your attention. U will come back feeling better

Hi Cornetto, saw your post in another thread...cheer up! Check out the below website....me and my friends just went for the soulmate package....enjoyed it very much....i think it's a good way to destress....just go there and chill out for the weekend, you will feel better http://www.ichotelsgroup.com/h/d/hi/1/en/h.../BTAID/packages

Aiyoh cool down cool down...maybe he's just afraid of saying the wrong things in front of you when you are sad....so he thought it's better to let you cool down then talk to you later when you are feeling better....perhaps he doesn't want to bring this up cos he's afraid he will remind u of your sadness again? My hubby also like that....he said he doesn't know how to handle me when i'm feeling upset so he usually just leaves me alone until i cool down then talk to me...i'm very fed up with him sometimes too...but some guys just aren't good at consoling ppl, wait make things worse....now i'd rather talk to my buddies than talk to him....hv u tried talking to friends?

Anyone considering Holiday Inn Batam? I've been there twice le and I enjoyed both trips very much...the spa there is excellent...just go there with a few friends to chill out over the weekends for a nua trip....I gave that 2 thumbs up! Some more they got promotion right now.....

If i'm not wrong, holiday inn chain of hotels belong to intercontinental group....even more confusing right??

Actually like that good mah...then u will smile more naturally, if not, wait the photos come out too stiff leh...my hubby not a joker....kinda boring one....i find myself very difficult to smile during my PS....

Hey I suddenly remembered i graduated in 2001 lah....hahaha....cos initially i was thinking ehh...i grad from pri sch in 1994 then after that go straight to poly so i think aga aga grad from poly in 98...i totally forgot that i went to sec sch leh! hahaha...pai seh my brain a bit rusty liao....