So nice. For my case, we have joint account and usually deduct all expenses from the joint account. I feel very burdened at times because even buying a wardrobe, I need my husband's permission... And he ever suggested to reduce the amount we put into the joint account so that less to spend. Though we have our personal accounts, but they are now our shared accounts after getting married, and I need his permission to spend the money in my personal accoutn as well. And sometimes I have the feeling that he disclose our financial status to his parents. Or he buys stock using his personal account after discussing with his parent without discussing/ informing me... I questioned him before and he got angry and told me that he could show me his bank statement monthly if really need to.