Does the act of giving and receiving red packets also "deviates from your very belief that God is above all these"? If your elders are non-believer, do you reject red packets that they give you during CNY for this very reason? I believe that religions are about teachings that better oneself but not making their followers bigots. I have very close friends that are strong believer of your religion, but they do not harbour such thinking. It's all about respecting oneself and others' values.