i think that we should get married with 100% trust on both sides, if not, then there shouldnt be a marriage. This is what a marraige is about, blind faith, in your spouse that he/she will never do anything to hurt you coz he/she loves you. However, marriage is a gamble in the first place. so this obviously doesnt apply if he/she has betrayed your trust. If that happens, i really dont know what we can do.