you mean this girl left you b'cos you didn't buy her the 4k ring?? so materialistic meh? erm, i think this is not the way lor. during courtship days, hubby didn't buy me any ring at all. only ROM, hubby bought me a ROM ring. recently, he just bought me a more than 10k ring. see, i must wait until now then got a 10k ring. i also didn't ditch my hubby last time.