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your ROM period is still "green" (less than 3 mths). hubby and i have ROM for about 3 years liao and now we still quarrel at times. ya, agree. sporean men are loving in practical ways. they think that romantic cannot fill up the stomach and earning more $$$ for the wives is a more practical way.

it'll be best that you borrow your friend's lorry or van. after that treat your friend a meal.

you're a woman who like to be kissed. hehe. even your avatar has a sexy lip.

if you've friends who drive a lorry can help you.

what had happened to other people relationships don't mean your relationship will be the same as theirs mah. maybe yours will be different and better than theirs.

what's "loving" meant to you gals? in what ways? if my hubby often buy me meals when he knows i haven't eaten yet. whenever i want something and he'll try his best to buy for me, most of the time i'll get the things i want. usually, he'll bring me to see doctor when i'm sick. he'll order and carry the food for me when we eat together at foodcourt. he'll always buy me presents on my birthday. are these above meant "loving"?

bascially, we always nag at each other.

last nov, we went shanghai and other provinces in china. things in china are quite cheap due to the currency. we bought 100% silk quilt cover, zi sha hu (teapot set), pearls etc. but we didn't seen curtains leh.

haha. it's the opposite way for us. i'm the one who keep nagging at hubby. he can't stand my nagging.

if i'm the one who had done something wrong then i'll accept hubby's harsh scolding lor. BUT if i didn't do anything wrong and he scolded me for nothing then i'll fight back.

i'll get a harsh scolding by hubby if i've done something terribly wrong. he'll be very firece!

wow, you already have a son liao huh. so envy! !! your resale flat at bt panjang is it your first home? you stayed with in laws last time?

HSH21 doesn't have avatar leh.

as long as you still love him can liao.

my advise is follow your heart smartly and not blindly.

i find that doing laundry is still ok for me but i hate ironing lor b'cos when ironing is very tired and hot.

besides, holding hand and there're some minor changes too but overall i can say he's still very good to me. usually, he'll give in to me and i'm the one who always receive.

ya, this is your life. even if my parents don't like this man and i'll still choose him b'cos i love him and i know he's my mr right.

however, i can say my hubby still treat me very good after married.

you've already got your answer, ok! the part where i highlighted! you love B and NOT A! you already clearly told us that you'll be happier with B. so why still want to cheat on A and yourself??? personally, i treat ROM as legally married already. customary wedding is just a chinese tradition which either you want to do or don't want to do. some people just ROM then from there continue with their marriage life and no customary wedding at all.

we don't know what other problems you've b'cos seen like you can't wait until 35 years old or want to apply with siblings/parents.

wow, your hubby takes mc as and when he wants to talk co*k to his friends?! he prefers to talk co*k to his friends rather than bother about his rice bowl. how old is he? if i were you and i sure wake him up! who paid for the reno? you or your hubby? if he's the one who paid all/more then you took charge of the reno is no problem. for me, hubby paid for all the reno so i took charge of the reno. i'm ok with this. "you qian chu qian, you li chu li".

no need b'cos not very impt lah.

in life, there're too many things you'll feel regret so no point to look back. usually, i don't look back in life and just carry on with life. what is done cannot be undone. treasure and cherish what and who you've now.

last time, they wanted to "zhan you" us mah so hold our hands lor. now after married liao and already successfully "zhan you' us liao so don't need to hold our hands liao. we already officially belong to them liao mah. last time, he held my hand and didn't complain. now holding my hand and complain uncomfortable for his movement.