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wow, "doing" it everyday! oh manz, i'm not a machine leh. ya, agree that FIL is not as bad as MIL (i always have such a concept). he's those "bo chap" type. everyday he goes shopping and don't bother/meddle with us. haha.

well said too!

haha. such thing how to jia you. it cannot be forced. everything goes naturally. i also don't like to stay with in laws but bo bian leh. i only have FIL.

ya, i agree babies can make a difference in a marriage life. i don't mind getting pregnant after AD b'cos i'm sure hubby and i will love to have a baby of ours.

it's very impt to put yourself in the person's shoe to analyse. when comes to triangle love, all the 3 parties will suffer and the person who suffer most will be the one who get betray. nobody likes to get betray esp from your loved ones.

initially, i really feel sad for 2708soul but after continue reading her posting and feel that she cannot blame anyone but herself. why?? b'cos she keeps on dragging this whole matter (still haven't make a final decision yet) and still continue to betray A to see B. 2708soul, you should put yourself in A's shoe. do you know how insecure A feels about this relationship a not? i'm sure A will feel very insecure for the rest of his life. why want to make his life so miserable? do you think only your life is miserable whereas A doesn't?

you hubby drove it himself but the car was rented or borrowed from who?

your colleague is a very one kind type of person. i always tell myself don't look back and don't regret for the things that i've done. no point by doing so. i always look forward to the future. in this way, i'll live happier! people always regret after they've married. why??? this is the marriage and partner you've chosen in the first place so why regret now when things aren't going smoothly. when things don't go smoothly then start to put blame on this and that. that isn't the way, right. i feel that A is the most innocent party in this whole incident. 2708soul and B should be responsible to this whole incident. frankly speaking, i don't like people to cheat in a relationship and "one leg steps onto two boats". everybody should treat a relationship seriously.

haiz. nice man? is there such a person existed? no human is perfect.

huh? what's your qns? as usual lor, shake legs at home and eat "air". what are you busy with? new job? how is it? better? when is your AD? oh ya, did you manage to find a car and driver during your ROM?

the topic shouldn't be "I Love Two Persons At The Same Time". it should be "I Truely Love B But Is Forced To Love A".

ya but no choice due to work so they must go oversea lor. for the sake of $$$.

ya, i mean after you all have kids liao then better advise him to stay put in spore. or else it'll be very tough for you to cope with everything alone. if he really needs to work oversea then you should follow him. i've many cousins who are working oversea and only come back to spore few times in a year. but their wives and kids all follow them to oversea to stay. no choice.

i guess this is life lor. there's always a cycle. ya, i also hate a man to shout at me in the public. so shameful. you really will divorce him b'cos of this matter?? maybe you can try to talk to him about this matter.

haiz... if i were her and i also don't know what to do. i'll feel so lost... if i were her, my main concern will be whether B will leave me (in the future) if eventually i've chosen him and opposed my parents? and if i've chosen A and in the future A treats me badly then will my parents side A? !!

ya, all of us can tell that she loves B. i'm thinking what if one day A betrays her then will her parents side A?? since her parents like A so much until they can disown their daughter. !!

!! i love my hubby so i don't mind to have babies with him.

time flies. i'm sure you'll miss your hubby after he flew. have you ever thought of asking him to stay put in spore instead of oversea? !! i mean the long distance relationship and after married matters.

i feel very sad for you... you should really ask yourself who you really love lah. or else you'll never be able to make a decision. i'm sure between A and B, there's one of them who you truely love. if you love A then pls forget about B. if you love B then pls forget about A. i'm also sure that if you truely love one of them then you'll never love the other one already. how can you love 2 persons at the same time??? !! i love my hubby very much so my heart is always with him and i can never love another man liao.

bali isn't a place hubby and i will keen to go. why leh. how was your ROM? your hubby still in spore?

wow...!

i guess ensuring us enough to eat is a man's main priority.

in what ways how they show?

instant kid??? what did you mean?!

ya, i absolutely agree with you! before marriage, everyday can think about is love love love and romantic. after marriage, there're other factors that come in rather than love and romantic.