Hi All,
In a bit of a predicament here so hoping someone can shed some advice.
Me and my husband married about 2+ years ago and we have a kid. Problem is after some argument, he completely disappeared. No calls, visits whatsoever from him for 2 years already. During the argument that time, we brought up the idea of divorce but he refused to. In fact he was violent towards me, hitting me and threatening my family members to get back at them for standing on my side (which family would not?). I desperately want to carry on with my life and want to get a divorce but problem is i'm afraid that he'll come and disturb my family and try and do something funny to my daughter. Now i wanted to apply for a HDB flat but HDB refused me and even after i explain to them my situation, they wanted to see document proofs like police report of missing person etc.. i would have made a police report if i can, i just afraid that something will happen to my kid.
Question is, if i made a police report abt a missing person, will the police really go and find him, but i really dont want to see him again yet i want a divorce. Going thru lawyers is another option but can they really help...i'm really lost so any kind souls with such experience can advise, thanks..